how do you know if your husband is having an affair?

Answer 1

My mom always tells me you know when a man is cheating on you when you feel it in your gut that there's something just not right .sit down an just talk about it nicely just tell him something has changed about him you want to know whats going on because you love him and your concerned

Answer 2

3 things he can't do without and he can't keep a mistress without are his phone, his car, and his wallet (unless he has gone to the extreme length of duplicating all 3).

Check:

cell phone bill

credit card bills

mileage on car

Those can tell you a story. What's that one number he's always calling, especially early and late?

What are these charges for?

If work is 15 miles away for a round trip of 30, and he puts 79 on every Tuesday and Thursday, where does he go?

Just be a logical fact-finder for now. Don't hurl accusations just yet. But usually (not always, but usually) your woman's intuition on this one thing (not all things) is correct.

Answer 3

A big give away is a change in routine. If his appearance seems to have changed,in other words he is always smart when he is out with the boys.
Most affairs start in the workplace and often work instructs people to go on legitimate courses but with their lovers not their wives.
the problem with most men is that if a good looking woman wants you 9 times out of ten she will.
Men are weak and I have seen so many of my mates cheat on there wives or girlfriends. They think its a game and its only sex !
But what they don't understand is that they have to much to lose and only realise this when its to late.
If you have a good relationship then be direct and ask him outright.
You have nothing to lose by asking but if you don't ask it will always be in the back of your mind that he is cheating on you and you will convince yourself that he is cheating on you when he isn't.

Answer 4

Look him in the eyes and ask "Dear, are you sleeping with another woman"? If he stutters and then gives you a direct answer immediately, he is not. If he stutters and continues to stumble with almost every word he utters, he IS having an affair. But this is not a hard and fast rule.. there is none short of catching him at him; but keep a close and direct look at his eyes. The harder he tries to avoid your stare the closer you are to confirming he has another woman (or man).

Answer 5

I'm amazed by these answers. Spy on him, go through his pockets, and the best one was if he's happy, he's having an affair!

JC on a bike!

Maybe if you had sex with him more often, you wouldn't have to even start worrying about this.

Answer 6

First you will know in your gut. Then things like being out of the house more, working late, better grooming habits, extra miles on the car, check his cell phone to see who he is calling. If you suspect he might be chances are he is. Do some investigation.

Answer 7

works late hours, changes his underwear style, you know like from white briefs to something sexier, starts to work out or care how he looks, check the cell phone bill for strange telephone numbers, your sex life with him has changed those are just a few signs

Answer 8

I once heard someone offer this advice. Offer to cook him one of two meals - one fattening but very tasty, the other very low in calories but not very interesting.

If he chooses the high fat meal, he isn't watching his figure and is comfortable you like him like he is.

If he choose the low calorie less tasty meal, he is saving himself for someone else.

Answer 9

protective of mobile phone
increase in his personal hygiene, showers more aftershave etc
watching his figure
hiding bank statements
working late/extra days/overnight
smelling of a woman
stains in pants (sorry TMI)
loss of libido with you
buying you gifts cos of his guilt

Answer 10

Trut your gut!!!!! That the bet thing I can tll you. At firt I had no clues, but my gut was telling me something was wrong...I fought it for a while but guess what?....It was right all along.