why women with a regular sex life needs an adult toy?

Question

guess im different but i dont understand why a woman who has a boyfriend or married and the 2 of them have a regular sex life why would she want an adult toy(u all know what i mean) i think thats nasty but like i said i guess im different

i dont need 1 of those only thing those goes up there is hubby's member lol

A teen no im 38 yrs old and married 16 yrs

well when i am horny i wait for hubby rather make love then do that but like i said before guess im different

Not threaten by them just not interested in them

Just my opinion but i think women who uses sex toys dont get satisfied by their man

To all the people who answered my question...Im NOT a man who ask this question

To all the people who answered my question thinking im a man......Im a women

To all the people who answered my question thinking im a man......Im a WOMAN

never said i didnt masturbate just ask why women use sex toys

never said i never masturbate i do but rarely just would rather wait for hubby to come home and make love but using a sex toy thats whats nasty

Answer 1

i know women that think both ways.. generally what i find is this: generally women who use sex toys, even though they have it good, want to experience more than what they have.. in other words, just because they get it all the time, it may not be to their fullest satisfaction or up to their expectations.. in other cases, (ie.. my ex-wife) it was because she had unfulfilled fantasies that i wanted no part of and her way to have the best of both worlds was imagination. i know now that if you are just content with your sex life and not completely fulfilled, you are not going to be happy and you are going to seek other forms of pleasure, either in the form of D-powered toys or other people.. i hope this helps you ..... just for the record, i agree with you

Answer 2

Let me educate you a bit. Sit down. Grab a drink.

OK. When I met the woman who would eventually become my wife, we were both pretty sexually charged people. We both enjoyed solosex (masturbation).

When we got married, we enjoyed sex on a regular basis like two rabbits in heat, and we STILL enjoyed masturbation, because we never had this notion that it was "second rate pleasure;" in other words, inferior to intercourse. We enjoyed both kinds of pleasure because both were unique and satisfying.

To this day - 36 yrs. later - we still hump like rabbits and we still "Jack and Jill" for the same reasons.

Some guys seem to have this "penis thing," where they think that the only pleasure a woman/girlfriend/wife should experience should come directly from them.

Well, guess what? No matter how good a lover you might be, a woman might still have a desire to pleasure herself in her own way, in private or with you.

If you feel threatened by this, you might have a bit of a problem, but don't take it out on your woman.

If she happens to enjoy solosex, and if she really loves you, she might choose to show you just how she does herself. And know what else? No matter how diligently you study her "technique," no matter how much you try to duplicate her moves, you cannot do it to her as well as she can do it to herself.....and this still has NOTHING to do with your manhood or your lovemaking prowess.

Answer 3

That's a little like asking a woman, "Why women who eat chicken regularly need beef?" Because we like variety, that's why.

You're making it sound like the woman has the probelm, but I think the issue is a man being insecure. I had a boyfriend once who found one of my toys in my panty drawer and demanded I get rid of it because "you have me." Well, let's just say that I married an enlightened man who not only surprises me with toys and gets a twinkle in his eyes when he flips the switch, but is secure enough in our relationship and his maleness to let me play when's he's too pooped to pop.

And consider this: what you think this is nasty, some might consider you alarmingly uptight. Everyone has a point of view.

Answer 4

you think toys are nasty. mmm im going to take a stab at saying your iether young or your not comfortable with your own sexuality. , toys can bring exicitement back into a relationship. guess im safe to say masturbation would be out of the question for you also, whether it was infront of your partner or by yourself. get experimental and comfortable with sex and toys you will enjoy it alot more mmm you do realize that guys do them selvs is that gross and nasty also. you need to get over this nasty feeling and enjoy your self more. give your partner a show see how turned on the both of you get.
you say your different, no your not open to try different things and enjoy them for what they can do. what are you going to do when that hormone kicks in and he is not around. your going to deny yourself of that pleasure. if your alone go for it, he would.

Answer 5

I think this sounds more like your problem then his. As long as he still wants to be sexual with you I wouldnt worry.More guys do this than most women realize. To the person that said he will eventually cheat on you------come on now if every guy that watched porn and his wife didnt like it cheated, I think 90% of guys would cheat. If he wanted to cheat he wouldnt being watching porn he would be cheating with the real thing. I know this really bothers you but my belief is that it has nothing to do with you just something he likes, I would let up though no man likes being nagged about something that a women takes in one way when he doesnt even mean it in that way.

Answer 6

You are toohung up on yourself. Stop worrying. My woman has lots of toys. Sometimes we break them out and she lets me use them on her and sometimes not. No reason for you to be threatened by them. I aint always home when she wants some. Better a toy than someone else.

Answer 7

why ? well for one when you masturbate you dont have to worry that you look good,or are even showered for that matter, no pressure to orgasm(yes thats something new i think for women-feeling like when a mans camped out down there giving all he's got, you, or at least i do sometimes, feel like you have to have multiple orgasms.)dont take it personally. it has nothing to do with your "prowess"!

Answer 8

I like to use toys in front of my partner to turn him on. It's part of the play of sex. They are also useful when getting oral sex.

Answer 9

You must be a teen. Give it time. Once you start experiencing orgasms you will want a toy.

Answer 10

No offense to you, but women do get horny at times when us guys are not around to help scratch that itch.