why do guys go for looks? why does the girl have to be skinny to get your attention? why cant you look at what is on the inside not whats on the out? why is it that just becasue i am heavy that no guys want a larger girl i mean they want my stick figure friends? why?
2007-01-18 06:37:52 · 24 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2007-01-18 06:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by david f 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
There are some who do. My wife is heavy and some heavy girls think that it is my type. I don't like stick figures either. My first wife was the opposite, I had to suggest to her that a 5' 7" woman is too large for a double-digit weight. When I see the pictures of the far-too-skinny fashion models, those are stick figures and they are not ideal to most men, to most men they look sick. But neither do most men like blimps, even the men who have begun to resemble the barrel their beer came in. How about something in the middle? The anorexic-types obsess over food making them fat. The plump girls obsess with food because men don't find them interesting. If you go to a land where people are starving, you will look rich and successful and the men will want a woman who is more than skin and bones. You can change you or go where what you are is appreciated. Decide.
2007-01-18 14:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, question for you....would you want to date a guy that only had one leg, or was burned and had scars on his face? Everyone judges people by the way that they look, and for all the guys that judge you by your apperance, why would you even want to date them, or even care what they think? The ones worth caring about are the ones that get to know you, all the others would just be a waste of time.
I can tell you that if I ran into you and your friends I woud first look at your friends over you IF they were fit, or tall, or whatever vs. you. But if I talked with all of you, and you had a better personality, you would be the one that I called the next day.
2007-01-18 14:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the answer is in basic attraction.
The real question is deeper than it was posed.
1. Why do guys go after girls they are attracted too?
This is biology, social pressure and to be honest lust of the eyes.
Its why a women perfer Brad Pitt over Larry the cable guy.
But to be honest, mature men tend to be attracted to women who are physically attractive enough to catch their attention (at least for a short time) , and they tend to stay with women from that sub group of women who are mentally, and emotionally compatible.
2. Why are some guys seem to be attracted to the outside of a woman instead of the inside?
Not all men are completely into T and A.
But to some degree all of us are.
We want a mate we desire and who is desired by others.
Its a pride thing and a lust thing.
But I personally would choose an average looking lady who was nice and kind to me over a super model who treated me like garbage.
2007-01-18 14:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by tiggis2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some times a woman can be so fat the parts just wont fit. i mean think of it your lying on your back and he is on top of you and you have a stomach that sticks up full of fat for say 20 inches well that just wont work .
being fat is really a sin . called gluttony .
you should fast everyday only one meal and only after dark . no food ever in the day and never any food other then the one meal. do that pray and then you wont be seen as a slob and a sinner so much that no man wants you .
2007-01-18 14:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not true it all depends on the guy i prefer larger women so when i give them a hug they wont brake like a "TWIG"
so you have to find the right guy I'm 6"4' 260 and in in OK shape but if i was 5"5' i would be a lot bigger around.
it also depends on the way a woman takes care of them selves
2007-01-18 14:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by tom E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real...The world is based on attractive people. Is this fair...Hell no. Turn on the T.V. read a magazine. Looks looks looks. But..when you do meet someone it will be genuine. I have dated a lot of very attractive women in my life, but I am still single. I never seem to find substance. which is the most important thing. But physical attraction is in the eye of the beholder.
2007-01-18 14:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we are not intrested in that. Nature shows that all animals go for mates that will produce the best features in offspring. nobody wants a fat kid. Honestly your weight is something you can change so instead of sitting on the computer and whining about it get on a bike and lose some of it. I used to be chubby and now i work out a lot so im not anymore..
2007-01-18 14:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by schism0013 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am proof that that is not always the case,i would rather be with a chunky girl,not obess,but thick! i don't care to wrap my arms around a skinny woman and feel nothing but bones...very unattractive to me personally! i also dont want to be with a fine thick girl with a terrible attitude,i do look for nice girls.so you need to be more confident in yourself before anyone else is gonna look your way.whether you know it or not confidence shows on the outside,so if your not happy with yourself,don't expect someone else to be happy with you.good luck and keep yur chin up.
2007-01-18 14:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by BULL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's not so much the being heavy as it is the extreme bitterness I detect. Chill out. There's someone out there for you. Broad sweeping generalisations (all guys go for looks) are never true.
2007-01-18 14:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the world is pretty shallow. And people are conditioned by all the advertisements and fashion shows and the movies.
2007-01-18 14:41:22 · answer #11 · answered by edge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋