it was my birthday recently and my bf (well maybe my ex now( took me out for a beautiful dinner and walk along beach etc.
and when we got back to his apt there was a surprise party waitin for me...which would have been romantic...but his friends threw a bucket of animal waste on me...both pee and poop. what makes it wose is they all claim he knew about it and in fact encouraged it...but he keeps dancing around it like dening it one second and saying he was just goofin around the next.
they all maintain it was a joke...but i got my new dressed ruined...and i cried. that was sooo mean i think...
but they think its funny. they even laughed when they apologized....they says it just a prank...
what do i do?
2007-01-18 06:23:28 · 52 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You should smack all of them! And then prepare to do it to them in their beds... while they are sleeping!
2007-01-18 06:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by I am Crystal S. 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am sorry to hear this and you had to experience it that way. I would not forgive your bf for it because it was very tacky and unhealthy, germs and etc on you. They could have just give you the bubbles or flowers sprinkles, very feminine things instead. I would accept their apologies, but not forgive them on the part. Move on. If I were you, tell your boyfriend that he has some to work on things before you go to next level going with him. If he has a problem on compromising on that, then look for some else who is more sentimental and more gentleman who think twice through about your feelings and probably plan the next party for you differently, nicer people around you.
I wish to give you the hug on your bad experience. Well, it is not the end of world. Just remember as its your doing this to getting know the guy. It's important to keep in the mind you have to see both sides of the guy before you make a real commitment rather than live out as a miserable person.
2007-01-18 06:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Julie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is NASTY. Why would your b/f get into that prank? Pranks like that are immature. That is mean of them all to do that to you. I would be right pissed off about it. Especially being your birthday and you got a new dress for the occasion. I wonder if he was thinking about the prank the whole time when he was out having dinner with you? Probably was. He and his friends sound immature and personally I wouldn't go out with him anymore. Never know if they would do that again to you. But that is just me. You deserve respect and better treatment.
2007-01-18 06:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Now ... how much of this are you going to take?
I looked back into your other material her on Answers and got no farther than to find that he has a dirty diaper problem. Girl, if you don't get away from him like NOW, you are a very foolish person. Sweet and adorable, no way!!!!
And his friends are disgusting. Do not give such people a second chance. Once is enough and you are already past that point!
2007-01-18 06:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not talk to any of them anymore. That is so mean. Do you really think this was a prank or a good way to get you to dump him?
Unless your ex-boyfriend is a spineless idiot, I can't see how he could consider this a harmelss joke.
If you want to take it to an extreme you should sue them for pain and suffering and the cost of your dress.
2007-01-18 06:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by anosey1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness. How hideous! I can't say I wouldn't have done the same. How old were these guys? I think it was extremely childish. I mean....what kind of people does he associate with even if he wasn't involved? I dunno. Giving the benefit of the doubt, SOME (: guys do things like that. I think it boils down to how much he means to you. If it's a lot, maybe let him ride THIS TIME. If not, cut strings and find someone who will not get a stupid laugh at your expense. Recommend some Will Ferrell to him - same concept, no hurt feelings. Good luck.
2007-01-18 06:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you don't mind a guy answering this question but that is totally unacceptable behavior. If some guy did that to one of my daughters I would hunt him down and make him (and his friends) eat what they threw!!! If he treats you that way now it will only get worse as time goes on. Sounds to me like he neither loves or respects you. There are plenty of available men out there that respect women, dump this a$$hole and find one.
2007-01-18 06:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl, but no one deserves that. Too far beyond good taste to be a prank. Confetti, maybe. Poop? Not cool or funny in the least.
They don't respect you. Their fathers should slap them for disrespecting a woman.
2007-01-18 06:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by VirtualElvis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd start looking for a man who's friends had just a TOUCH more sense/class/respect/brains/empathy/compassion/conscience than yours does.
Damn. And HE'S giggling too? If he truly cares for you as a girlfriend (not a source of ridicule for his entertainment) he would never have even considered such an action.
2007-01-18 06:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huh? W T F?
I'm speechless. R U Serious? If soooo
Buh-bye boyfriend who must not be the brightest star in the sky if he has friends like that. Disgusting - reminds me of when they dumped pig blood on Carrie on Prom Night.
2007-01-18 06:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by svmainus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find something worse than animal waste...I'm sure you can think of something REALLY REALLY bad and throw it on HIM with all YOUR friends standing around and watching (but make sure it's somewhere where he can't get you or he'll smear it on you too, guys are like that, so like maybe from a balcony?) and then break up with that horrible piece of crap. He is a LOSER.
2007-01-18 06:29:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋