Mother in law with Dementia problems ?

Question

My mother in law has dementia. She is still at home, and we hired a woman to help with her.She goes to her house in the late morning, gives her breakfast , does laundry, etc. We've been having problems with my mother in law staying up late. I dont think that she goes to bed sometimes until morning. Then when our help arrives, she cant get her up. Has anyone had this experience before? I know that they call it sundowning, but I dont know if it can be corrected. We cant afford to have someone with her all the time to make sure that she goes to bed at a decent time. Any input would be appreciated. She's also been nasty to people and shes normally a very sweet person. My husband and I are about ready to lose our minds. HELP!!

Answer 1

That's very difficult. I'm so sorry about this. Unfortunately with dementia, it continues to decline. There is a relatively new and somewhat promising medication that I would ask her doctor about. It's called Aricept. Not knowing her history, it may not be appropriate for her but ask her doctor.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

We are in a similar spot with my wife's mother, although her condition is not as advanced as yours. Because of that, I do not have much input. I wish you well. One thing that comes to mind is why she has to be awakened when the help comes.