Am I entitled to an elective C-section?

Question

I haven't spoken to my doctor yet,but I have Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction (even though doctor doesnt believe me- see my last question asked to understand). It is a disorder that causes my pubic bone to ache uncontrollably, to the point where I cant get up from sitting, move in bed, and even put my pants on. According to my research, it is possible for this condition to worsen with natural birth. My doctor is a bit pushy and won't listen to some of the things I tell her(plus Im very underspoken and uncomfortable overspeaking her), brushing them off as typical pregnancy symptoms. Is it my right to ask for a c-section? If I truly believe I shouldn't have a vaginal birth, does the doctor have to honor that? Help! I have an appointment on Wednesday, don't know if I should bring it up or not! I still have 10 more weeks, Im only almost 30 +3 weeks. Should I wait until its closer to my due date? Or should I say something now? Confusedd!!

Answer 1

First of all get a NEW DR NOW!!!!! There is no reason what so ever that u should be feeling weird about asking ANY question to ur dr. She is the woman who has not only ur life but ur babys life in her hands and u are nervous about asking a normal pregnancy question. That is crazy!!!! she is NOT a good Dr. if u are feeling the way u are. U should be able to express ur thoughts and concerns with out feeling like she is judgeing or makeing u feel wrong for what u think or know. U know YOUR body more then she ever will. If u have a pain somewhere and she says u dont then what the crap!!!!! U feel it right?! If things are like this now then I can only wonder what it will be like the day u go into labor. U will be saying the baby is pushing down cause u litterly feel it and she will be saying, no no no the baby isnt ready yet bla bla bla. That upsets me 4 real that u are going throught this. Get a new Dr honey if u dont feel right saying normal things to her. Id hate for u to have any regrets later on wishing u had a different Dr. U shouldnt have to speak over ur Dr for anything. Going to my apointments are enjoyible for me not an expereince that I dread. This is ur babys birth story and a memory u will have for a life time. it should be GREAT!!!! Good luck dear and GOD BLESS

Answer 2

Say something now because C-sections are pre-scheduled. Secondly, you are ABSOLUTELY entitled to a C-section if you want one. You're doctor may try to talk you out of it, and if thats the case - why don't you find a new supportive doctor?? Every doctor has a different style, you need to do what's best for you instead of being a push-over.
I aked my OB about elective C-section and he said in Brazil it's a vey common practice. Women do it all the time for even non-medical reasons (especially famous women). He was more than happy to do a C-section if I requested it. It's as safe as regular childbirth, though healing time is longer. Since you have a viable medical reason you feel you need one, go with your instincts. Talk to your OB, and if he/she makes you feel like your nuts or wrong - then find a new doctor IMMEDIATELY. Remember, you are paying THEM, you can choose any doctor you want!
PS. It's not too late to change. I may change doctor's when I am 8 months because I will be out-of-state. Call your insurance, because I am certain you CAN change. You just don't want to do it at the last minute.

Answer 3

Have you thought of seeing a chiropractor? It is well-known that chiropractic care takes care of this problem. I had this severely too, and it's almost disappeared since my first chiro. visit. I also can't imagine why you would elect a c-section. Did you know that newborns are twice as likely to be admitted to NICU and twice as likely to have heart problems after a C-section? The recovery is so much more painful, for weeks. Therefore, you will still have increased pain after birth. I'd try a chiropractor and if there is no relief, bring this up to your doctor. Good luck.

Answer 4

Say something now, better to start planning the birth, just in case you go into labor early. If you have been diagnosed, get a copy of your medical record to take to your ob/gyn. Now is not a good time to change "female" doctors, but if she is pushy and not listening to you, then change doctors after the baby is born. Plenty of women have voluntary C-Sections, so should you if you want one.

Answer 5

Now, you should speak up now! Yes, I can imagine your condition would be greatly aggrivated by vaginal birth. Your dr can't make you have a vaginal birth if you don't want to but if you have private insurance she make it financially hard on you. You see, drs have to give a reason for c-section other than just "that's what mom wanted" before your insruance will pay. Discuss it with her and see if she understands your point of view and agrees, if not, it's not too late to change drs!

Answer 6

Most OB's dont let you choose whether or not to have a c-section. Id look into seeing another doctor though! It seems pretty unprofessional for your Dr to not at least hear you out about your fears and concerns.

Answer 7

learn to speak up because u will have to speak up for your baby.

i think the c-section thing depends on your type of insurance and your dr.

btw your dr works for u. so if there is something u don't like about him/her feel free to change or speak up.

its too late now to change dr.'s.

Answer 8

i would bring it up but the doctor doesnt have to do it. Only if the doctor feels that an elective is necessary.

Answer 9

wow, iam the same way with my doctor, and my doctor never belives me in anything.She just sais "nothings wrong",.haha,i hate it,u should talk to her for sure

Answer 10

Oh my god you sound needy.