I'm a very jealous type one but i think my jealousy is driving me crazy.please advice.
2007-01-18 06:11:00 · 14 answers · asked by nex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
take time to sit and talk express your insecurity (jealousy) if you do not feel completely convinced seek couples therapy, seriously. sometimes too much love can smother the other person especially if they appreciate their independence. you don't want to push her away. talk to her and don't plead or be pushy just share your feeling honestly and let her share hers. your feelings are never wrong. do not be accusatory or naive either.
2007-01-18 06:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by paco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem towards my husband. I told him I was hurt in the past and therefore, a jealous person. He still wanted me then in a drunken state tried to kiss his best friend's woman. Not the smartest thing to do to me. Now, he cannot go anywhere or speak to a female without me starting a fight.
Just know that some of us are that way and if she loves you she will try to work it out with you. I think our types need a counselor to talk to and get out our fears and learn how to deal with them.
Good luck!
2007-01-18 14:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by N8TIVEHUNNIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealous ruins a realtionship id seek some thearp to be come more secure wiht your self. I hate jealous if i have to explain myself to my partner or there s no trust i dump them. I cant deal with that. To me thats one of the biggest turn offs is jealousy
2007-01-18 14:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by fine_ass_fatty21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help proffesional help. possesiveness and lots of jealousy will destroy your marriage, and you. you think it is driving you crazy well it will drive her away so get a handle on it because if you dont you will never be able to have a safe secure relationship with any spouse. good luck.
my self i was in a relationship once with someone like yourself, i was to young to realize what it had done to me. unfortunatly it took his death to wake me up. i can honestly say that if he was alive today and we were still together i would be a battered wife emotionly and probably physically. please get help
2007-01-18 14:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by jhdjkhblpk;mvhyf nbjhghbmnbjgb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to a therapist to help you identify why you get so jealous. Don't feel bad talking to a therapist because everyone has issues that are confusing and we all need to be shown how to deal with them.
2007-01-18 14:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Michael K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need counseling or help for your jealousy problem or you will end up losing her.... Work on bettering you and learning how to be a better husband to and for her and your marriage.
http://www.drphil.com
http://www.marriagetoday.org
2007-01-18 14:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trust your wife, be more secure about yourself. Insecurity equals jealousy. Eventually she is going to get tired of it.. Calm down!
2007-01-18 14:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just calm down and trust her......y r u so jealous?...introspect and think about it....im sure ull get to the bottom of it...
lil bit jealousy is normal and healthy...but anything in excess is bad....i hope u can find the balance....i wish u luck
2007-01-18 14:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by lilbit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust your wife then you don't need to be with her.I don't think that it is your wife that you don't trust but rather yourself that you don't trust.You need to get counseling for your jelousy issues before you lose your wife.Good luck to you.
2007-01-18 14:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you talk to each other without arguing? If not, perhaps a marriage counselor or priest can help you.
2007-01-18 14:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by demilspencer@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋