ok. my best freind has been really nasty. 1st she's told evreone some thing i didn't want her to tell any one. then she stoped talking to me because she dosent like one of my other freinds. if i dont spend all my time with her she just sudenly thinks i dont like her. and today i find out that she has been b****ing about me behind my back. i havent done any thing that could have upset her as far as i know. but normaly she tells me if i have so we can sort it out.
dose she hate me? or am i being stupid?
2007-01-18 06:02:04 · 19 answers · asked by emma t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're not being stupid, and she doesn't hate you. She's one of those people that want you all to herself. Doesn't want you to have any other friends, frankly I don't think you need a friend like that. They cause more problems for you than the friendship is actually worth. She's not trustworthy, she's a backstabber, she's a b*tch... so why do you exactly care if she hates you or not. She's not a true friend. Jeez, you can't even trust her when you tell her something. And that's what friends are supposed to be there for. They HELP you when there's no one else you can turn to, they don't tell everyone something you don't want people to know, they don't talk behind your back, they respect the fact that you have other friends and you have to make time for everyone else. The whole world doesn't revolve around her. I think it's time to let her go, you don't need a friend that does that to you. She's not even a friend. She's a foe!
2007-01-18 06:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds insecure. Dont tell her anything you would not want repeated. She sounds more jealous than hateful. Dont realy on her, go out with other friends. She will soon realise you are not there for her beck and call and you cant be a means for her bitching. She may be annoyed at you and been unable to tell you and instead bitched instead, not very mature but what you could do is approach her tell her that you cant traust her and she upset you and ask her if you have bothered her in anyway. If she acts like a prat ditch her, lifes too short and a" certain enemy is worse than an uncertain friend "think about that.Good luck
2007-01-18 07:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by janeysmithster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are not stupid. You could talk to your friend and find out why is she doing what she is doing. Get to the point and tell it like it is. You shouldn't be wasting your time being friends with someone who talks about you behind your back, bitches about everything, and doesn't like one of your other friends that you hang out with. Life is too short to have friends who will not treat you with respect. The bottom line is that you have to do what you think is best for yourself. Hope this helps. Best of luck.
2007-01-18 06:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not hate you she just does not respect you.Looks like she has a big dose of insecurity and is far too opinionated for her own good.Friends are supposed to make each other feel good about themselves and not drag you down.You can't choose your family but you CAN choose your friends, ditch your friend before she completely ruins your self confidence
2007-01-18 08:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not stupid please don't say that about yourself.I have a friend like that to.What the problem is your friend just wonts you to be her friend and thats it no other friends.Talk to this friend and let her know that it's ok to have more than one friend but you could not replace the friendship you both have.
2007-01-18 06:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it seem like your friend is jealous you don't need a friend like that so i would not bother with her anymore and tell her to get a life if all she can do is talk about .
2007-01-22 04:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by Julie E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like apoisonous little worm Find someone nicer to be friends with and cut her out of your life. to be polite I suppose you could tell her why you are doing so - but be calm about it.
2007-01-18 06:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her. That's the only way you'll know. Don't go through other ppl, that will make things worse right now.
2007-01-18 06:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have not something against worms and that i definitely would not harm them (it fairly is in the event that they do experience something, your sons buddy would be attentive to). additionally they are solid for the soil so yeah i like worms effective.
2016-10-31 11:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
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sorry about previous ans, its best to talk, you dont wanna fall out wiv best friend, be positive, direct, and friendly
2007-01-18 06:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by qwerty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋