gimme some feedback on this
2007-01-18 06:01:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanx for your answers guys!
2007-01-19 05:28:48 · update #1
Here's some feedback from a man: I would never do this to my fiancee/soon to be wife. Its disrespectful and objectifies women. In our relationship it is not okay. In some it is okay. Its a discussion between you two. However, it should not be acceptable if one of you does not agree to it, i.e., you.
2007-01-18 06:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They may have thought that you wouldn't be open to it, or they may simply need to warm up to you. Most strippers make rounds after they dance. They go around and thank everyone that came up and tipped them and try to get a private dance. If there's somebody the two of you like, be sure and tip her. Go up yourself and tip her, smile, maybe even flirt a lil by complementting her for something. That just kinda breaks the ice and lets the girls see that you aren't there because you were drug in the door. There are also plenty of girls that go to clubs yet aren't very open to anything. Visit the same couple places a few times and let the girls start warming up to you, you shouldn't have trouble then. I actually can't go to clubs now without ruining the fun because the girls flirt with me and try to take me home and ignore the guys the whole time.
2016-05-24 03:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't care if he goes. As long as he lets me know. Same with me, if I go I let him know. We have an understanding, we have the right to look, but no touching. It's human nature to look even to go to strip clubs to look.
If he's going there on a regular basis, drinking and spending money that could or should be spent on bills, he and you have a big problem!!
Also, did you ever think of going with?
2007-01-18 06:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by sandnickel2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Luckly i'm married to a man who isn't interested in those types of places, but i did have a bf that went 2 times in our 4 year realationship. It bothered me a lot, and was an issue... but i'm not longer with that guy... I don't think it is cool.
2007-01-18 06:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by Em C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally feel that, that's a form of disrespect towards me. I would and have felt in the past why I'm I not good enough for you? You could probably do all those little sexy moves, then some.
2007-01-18 06:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ipsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wel it all depends how the guy is and his friends, if you are trust worthy and honest, then its kool! but if you are a dog, and lie all the time to your gfriend or wife, for get it, youre not going anywhere, its that simple. If you are a good guy, you get to go, if not, you dont.
2007-01-18 06:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by dream 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
never really bothered me that much. my current bf use to work at a strip club..... i mean it worked out considering i was a stripper there as well but still if he went without me working there i would really care. i'd probably even join him.
2007-01-18 06:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by Back*To*Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to go to strip clubs and you don't want him to go then won't you change his mind and strip for him have a little show at your crib just the two of you
2007-01-18 06:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont mind once in awhile but if it was happening all the time i would start to wonder what was up ! i dont care where he gets his appetite from as long as he comes home to eat!
2007-01-18 06:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I myself don't agree with it, it leads to nothing but trouble in the long run.
2007-01-18 06:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by Lace 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋