i am 14 and mostly everyone is having sex should i start now to get over it and then stop and i am kind of nervous to talk about it so for me not to rush into it can anyone please tell me about there first time and how it supose to feel plz!!!!!!
2007-01-18 05:57:58 · 53 answers · asked by sheniqua c 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If everyone is committing suicide would do it too?
Silly, spend more time with your studies, and you would come out a more healthier kid than your ****** friends.
2007-01-18 06:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
At 14 you should not be thinking about S.E.X at all really. I am sitting here wondering if there is something going on in your life besides peer pressure that is causing you to feel this way. I had sex at 15 years old, for all the wrong reasons. You ask should you start now to get it over with, trust me, it is not something you will do just once and then stop. That boy that you allow to be your first is very immature and will run off and tell his friends all about you letting him have sex with you, and then the next thing you know the friends will be coming up to you trying to pressure you into having sex with them. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something that you really don't want to do. If your friends were your true friends.....they wouldn't want you to do it. Most of those girls that have had sex and are telling you that you should do it, probably regret it and just want someone else to feel as bad as they do. Sex is a beautiful thing when it is with the right person. At 14, there is no right person. I don't know what kind of music you listen to but there is an amazing song out by Lyfe Jennings called S.E.X, you should really listen to it and even look up the lyrics. I have 2 daughters, ages 11 & 9.....they know every word to this song, and I am praying that with my guidence and that song my daughters will understand how precious their virginity is. I am not one to preach about waiting until you are married, but 14 is way too young to allow that to happen to you. You are not ready to be a mother yet, and it can happen to even the most protected sexual partners. Take your time!!
2007-01-18 06:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first time hurts, and it will for a while after. It takes a while for it to even feel good.
Having sex at 14 isnt something you should be doing. You dont need to do things just because the people around you are. Have some integrity and some value in yourself as a woman, sex doesnt make you whole.
I waited until I got married, and it was well worth it. A lot of my friends didnt wait, at the time they were glad they had sex, but then they grew up and got married and have regretted it terribly ever since. All of them would go back and undo the past if they could.
Just wait. You have no business having sex at 14.
2007-01-18 06:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are only fourteen years old you are still a little child sex is a bond between married people so until you are married or above the age of 18 you shouldn't need to know how sex feel you should be knowing how straight As on your report card feel but not sex and you never have sex just cause mostly everyone is doing it you have to be grown or married
2007-01-18 06:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by sob13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for sex. It just seems like everyone is having sex. Trust me, that's not the case. Wait until you are out of school at least, this way when you're done with school and you get pregnant, you don't have to worry about taking care of a child and going to school at the same time. I waited until after i graduated from college and it is worth the wait. Sex confuses things in relationships. Don't do it 'cause everyone else is doing it, do it because you're ready to, and because you are ready to deal with ALL the aspects and repercussions that may come from having sex.
2007-01-18 06:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont follow everyone ones bad example of trying to be mature, well I will ask you this question, since you want to follow other peoples bad choices are you up for the responsibilty of having a child before the age of 15? I trust the fact you know where babies come from it take one time to get pregent!!!! So make the smart choice and wait until your old enough for the responibilies of having sex!!!
2007-01-18 09:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is way too early. Don't mind the people around you, they're doing the wrong thing; don't follow them. You have your entire life ahead of you. Just wait, time makes the experience so much better anyway. You don't want to end up a 14 yr old teen mom or an STD ridden teen. Keep you innocence 4 as long as you can because once its' gone, its' not coming back. Just wait.
2007-01-18 06:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl...you have your WHOLE life ahead of me. My parents told me...your body is sacred. If you feel you have feelings enough for this young man, and know the feelings are mutual without a bunch of SMACK, BS talk...then guess you are ready. But answer this, are you ready to take care of a child...cause if you are ready for sex, then you should be ready to be responsible enough to care for a child. I got pregnant @ 16, and I will tell you, I am sorry every day of my life, for not taking precautions, and really knowing how hard it was at such a young age. I've given up many things in my life, and worked 60 hours a week to provide for my children. I was an adult, without even being a kid, and it SUCKED!
2007-01-18 06:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by Connie P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush into anything. You need to wait until you are ready. You cant get your virginity back once you lost it. And if you are not very careful you could turn from teen into mother really fast. I had my 1st son when I was 16. I do not regret it but I wish I could have been a kid for a while longer. Take your time, you have the rest of your life.
2007-01-18 06:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by bb77blueeyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it, it only takes one time to get pregnant with or without a condom. There are also too many std's floating around. You don't wanna make a mistake and get pregnant or burnt by a immature little boy. You will have plenty of time for sex later on when you get older and find the right and responsible person.
2007-01-18 07:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by DerrtyRed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things you should learn:
1) Everyone lies about sex - including all those 14 year olds you're hanging out with.
2) you're too young - wait until you're about 18, at least. Then ask yourself, "If the guy never called me again, would my life be devastated at that point, or would I just I say 'crap!' and move on with my life?"
If your answer is the first one, you're too young. You're not emotionally ready to deal with the downside of this yet.
2007-01-18 06:08:58 · answer #11 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋