two brothers?
2007-01-18 05:44:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could LIKE two people, LUST after two people, CRUSH on two people...but you can't be in love with two, because true love is faithful and all-encompassing...you wouldn't have room in your heart to love another if you were already in love with one. It's possible you're seeing them as one and the same since they are brothers, but that isn't fair. Get to know them separately and decide which one you'd like to be with.
2007-01-18 05:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by grayhare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes -- a mother can love her parents, her children, her husband. There are many kinds of love but you have to decide which one of these two brothers you actually love in the "marriage and kids" way, otherwise you are going to create havoc with an entire family -- not just the triangle of you and the two brothers. I have 4 brothers-in-law and care very much about all of them but with my husband, there was something extra special between us. I've always told my mother-in-law that I got the pick of the litter and she always responds back with: I didn't have puppies!!! but she knows what I'm talking about. My brothers-in-law's wives say the same thing about their husbands. In my opinion, if you feel exactly the same way about both of these two brothers, start looking elsewhere for love because you never love the one you were meant to be with for the rest of your life the same way as you love anyone else -- ever. Again, just my opinion, but I have been married 28.5 years so maybe I know something but then again, maybe I don't. Ain't love grand???
2007-01-18 13:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by Dozyjozy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is truly love then the answer is no. When you truly love someone you forsake all others. In time your feelings may develop into love for one or the other of the brothers. For now, it seems that you have a strong attraction to both of them.
2007-01-18 13:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before I met my husband I would have said yes. But now I know that when you are really in love you can't even imagine feeling that for anyone but that one person for the rest of you life. Don't be afraid of love. You may get hurt some along the way, but that makes you smarter and stronger. You'll know when you find it.
2007-01-18 13:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by hjking315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I believe you can only be "IN LOVE" with one person. If you are "in love" then you would be completely dedicated to just the one. Now, is it possible to love two people? Sure it is! But when it comes down to it, why waste your time? Pick the best one and go with it! Good luck!
2007-01-18 13:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't possible to love two at the same time, either u will love one more, or that u may not truly love either of them fully. each may have a special place in your heart, but one is always going to mean more to u than the other.
2007-01-18 13:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No a good Idea--but anything is possible--but do the brothers know?? and if not when they find out?? Think they wont?? Oh they will --then what you loose them both?? Take your pick and leave the other Alone
2007-01-18 13:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you find 2 people that you have alot in common with, and they have different qualities that you find appealing, it is possible to love them both at the same time.
2007-01-18 13:56:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have been liking two men at the same time but that not love. be careful, what you need to do is go way from them.
2007-01-18 13:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by RED ROSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very possible but you have to step back and think about things and sort out your thoughts..... You will have to end up choosing who you really love and want to be with. Do not play with their emotions and hurt them you need to choose asap and not play around.
2007-01-18 14:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋