When to know when you have been given a second chance at love ? is there a time frame when you know the one you are with now is the one you have been waiting for ?? As a Divorcee I have been given a second chance and I knew right away ..How about you guys ??
2007-01-18 05:43:04 · 9 answers · asked by Pat J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dearest Pat,
Follow your heart and it will guide you and lead you to the truth.........No one can ever put a time frame on love....Love is free because it comes naturally.......It may take time to grow and build for some because after all love is patients and in getting to know someone deep down takes patient and time......How I can tell is by there actions and if it continues instead of fading then I know it is a sure thing...Isn't it GREAT being so in love?????? I know for sure that I am!!!!!! I LOVE YOU PAT.....Your Angel Baby.....
PS I hope I answered this well for you sexy....because you know me I speak straight from my heart!!!!
2007-01-18 08:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have a second chance. Even a third.
Sometimes we confuse love with lust.
Especially when one has gone through a divorce recently. I would recommend time getting to know yourself and enjoying being alone. This prevents making the same mistake. Ponder why your previous marriage ended in divorce. It takes two. Then improve and get your side of the problem fixed. Because you take the same problem you have into the next relationship. You don't want to do that.
2007-01-18 05:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by mrgogee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorced from 8 year marriage. Re-married for 13 years to the most unfortunate woman on the planet (she's amrried to me) and I have had a day go by that I don't thank God for the administrative error made in giving her to me.
I knew after one month and we were both in our thirties. Generally the more mature you are, age and personality, the quicker you should be able to tell.
Best of luck.
2007-01-18 05:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really think about it, you always know deep down inside when the "right one" comes along. If you truly believe that the "right one" has come around to give you a second chance, grab hold of this person and never, ever let this person go!! Good luck whatever you decide.
2007-01-18 05:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Dozyjozy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no time frame... Love is spelled time and that is what matters and when the right one comes along you heart will tell you so and you will know.
2007-01-18 06:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second chance I had turned out bad. Turns out he never divorced his first wife. Also he had hidden mental problems. Now I'm going through my second failed marriage and I'm done with all of that stupid stuff.
2007-01-18 05:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Amber911Fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well actually i knew as soon as i saw my husband for the first time and then knew when he proposed to me three days later but never really knew how deep his love untill just last week have been married for 11 years now.
2007-01-18 05:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by emotionalyhurtmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew right away too. I guess once you had cube steak, it's not too hard to find the filet mignon. Thank you.
2007-01-18 05:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you just have to let your heart be open to other things and accepting
2007-01-18 05:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋