What do you do when you aren't on the same page as your significant other?
2007-01-18 05:16:31 · 22 answers · asked by MamaLady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It happens in every relationship from time to time. but just hang in there, give it a little space to find it's way back on track. Just be careful that you 2 dont get too far apart.
2007-01-18 05:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't on the same page, it's a good idea to spend some time alone together to talk and reconnect. If you have children, find someone to take them for a day or two. If possible, take a (no kids) fabulous vacation together. This feeling sometimes happens because life gets so busy.
2007-01-18 05:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been feeling the same way here the past month, we just got this copmputer and my husband stays on it all the time, so I had a tallk to him and told him that I wanted to get our marriage back together and start doing things as a couple instead of him on the computer and me in another room of the house. Set down and talk and get things off your chest and decide where to gofrom here.
2007-01-18 05:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by evilgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all relationships going through periods like this. Sometimes it's just a phase, and sometimes it means something is wrong. Try doing something you two enjoyed when you first got together. See if you reconnect. Once you reconnect, it will open up the avenue for communication.
2007-01-18 05:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, I was going through the same thing but I don't know what your situation is with Me I got to a point were I started to hate him because when I was in a mood to cuddle he would look at me like if I was crazy see I couldn't tell you more things that you can do but I would need to know what's going on first email me if you like to
melaniezeena13@yahoo.com OR
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2007-01-18 05:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it actually happens often. And it's hard to handle because men arent the best at talking about things with us females but i do know that most of them try. Try doing things that he likes go out and let him decided what you guys do for the night. And casually over dinner just discuss it with him. Good or bad its worth a shot.
2007-01-18 05:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I in no way did. purely found out that there exchange into somebody else whilst he desperate to bypass away - i.e., whilst it did not rely anymore. In hindsight, there have been signs and symptoms, yet on the time i did not interpret them spectacular or did not end to think of long sufficient - plus, i'm not a suspicious or jealous individual by using nature, and that i tend to place my faith interior the guy I evaluate worth, and permit the worldwide guard something. yet - **** happens, what are you able to do.
2016-10-31 10:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we generally get into real stupid arguments, but the stupid argumetns also help us to get back on the same page.
Viscious cycle, but my wife is real bad at communicating so I guess this is the only way to do it.
She does not want to go to counseling and I cannot make her comunicate propperly if she doesn't want to.
Good Luck
With my exes, we used to go out for a nice walk and just talk about the stuff that is bothering us. It helped to get out of the house and get on neutral ground.
2007-01-18 05:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just two people with different opinions, that can't agree, each wanting to change the other one and make them see it their way. not easy to do, as when the honeymoon stage is gone, we begin to see our loved one, and his faults, and if we can't deal with them the relationship goes downhill. that's when we have to have communication, and meet that person half way and do a little giving, if we value our relationship if the relationship is worth saving and we really want to be with that person. the honeymoon stage always ends, and when it does, do we really have enough in common with that person to keep the relationship going? or would we be better off being apart? just things we have to decide.
2007-01-18 05:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to turn his damn page, for I am usually way ahead of him. Just Kidding. Just talk about what he issues maybe, youre not always going to agree on everything, just not possible, you just have to earn to agree to disagree...very wise words from my grandmother the day we got married 12 yrs ago. Or you can just withhold sex until he agrees with you anyway, LOL.
2007-01-18 05:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋