i was around his house and we started holding hands and stuff and then we put our heads together and i bent my head slightly and we were staring into each others eyes and then he said something stupid and we both lauged and break apart! this happened a few times and i think i felt i wanted to kiss him and we even spoak about it and we both said that we wanted to kiss each other. but we didn't, this happened a while ago now, before xmas but we barely speak now and we kinda advoid each other which is awful because he is my best friend
i asked my other friend about it and she said i probley got the feeling i needed to kiss someone 'cos i haven't gone out with anyone for ages, and he was the first boy i saw
what do you think, what should i do?
2007-01-18 04:49:17 · 17 answers · asked by X-x-Katie-x-X 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey.. this is natural.. he's a guy and you're a girl - it's a normal sexual attraction. Just let it go.. unless you want to take it further.
It's okay to feel a little nervous about it. Don't worry - the feeling will pass.
2007-01-18 07:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U HAVE A LOT OF QUESTION ON YOUR MIND BLOCK YOU FROM HIM, AND YOU NEED TO WALK TO HIM KISS HIM. THEN TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM AND ASK HIM ANY UNANSWER QUESTION YOU HAVE. LIKE WHY ARE WE AVOIDING EACH OTHER AND LET SEE WHAT HE HAVE TO SAY? OR MAYBE HE WAS AVOIDING U BECAUSE HE START TO HAVE SOME FEELING FOR U TOO. BUT U TWO DON'T TALK ABOUT IT AFTERWARD.
if girl come up to me and kiss and my best friend i would be shock but i would at least know her and i have some feeling for her.
2007-01-18 05:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by azn_tony2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol awwww thats cuute! but anyway he could've said something silly just because he was nervous. Next time that happens, well you've seen the movies..go in 90% and wait for him to go 10% if he does its a good go and if he doesn't then he doesn't want to kiss you
2007-01-18 05:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask your self is he want you want....you are best friends with him for a reason...there is something about him that makes you want to be around him and well the same goes for him...Just let it come about naturally..don't force it or make it into a big deal...that's what will make it uncomfortable....You will know if it is going to happen...good luck
2007-01-18 04:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by beans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should kiss him as you obviously both have feelings and otherwise you will just have a blank friendship but i also get what u meen 2 of my best mates are boys and i wouldn't kiss them coz i wouldn't wanna loose my friendship with thm but u obviously like him more and same applies to him so kiss him lol
2007-01-18 05:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by kissablelipsxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..i think u should ask him out..u prolly have strong feelings tordes this guy..and i know he is ur best friend but there is no reason ya'll shouldnt talk!! i kissed my best friend and we still talk but he is a ***-whole! now but i felt liked i loved him but when we kissed the spark wasnt there so i didnt ask him out or anything but we are still best friends!! you should ask him out and see where that takes u!! because it seems as if he also has strong feelings for u 2!! so GO FOR IT!! :)
BYE..---kimmy :)
2007-01-18 05:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~k-j~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms out of interest- what's your call? ( a simmilar situation is occurring to my chum! ) anyhow- do not tell absolutely everyone about the KISS. Cuz of be conscious leaks to the lady friend, you my chum might want to be in a Sticky situation. in basic terms wait it out and see if he ends issues such as his gf! good success! :)
2016-10-15 10:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him !that happened to me and it was when we where 12 now im 15 and hes 15 and we are still together
2007-01-18 04:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by Helena White 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. Be happy and live your normal life. May be your friendship is turning into something deeper but then again may be not. Get a date, go out, be happy and if he is the one nothing can go wrong.
2007-01-18 04:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by supergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been having the same thing happen to me with my best friend!!!! all of a sudden i like him, and want to date him. i haven't dated any one in a while either, and now that he knows i like him, he kinda avoids me and i do to. maybe you like him but you might just want some one to date because you feel like you have to have someone.
2007-01-18 05:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah Martinez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋