it my little cousin have a bady who ment a boy and so did my daugher is own a baby. they was hang out a lot together. then i took to the doctor for a check up then we find out she was prenant and have a child this was three mouth ago and same whith her couisn .
2007-01-18 04:19:45 · 13 answers · asked by deegovan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
They shouldn't have gone and got pregnant they made a mistake now they have to live with it i think that is punishment in its self they are going to need support i run a MSN group where teens that are pregnant or have had a baby can come and chat ask questions and meet other teens that have been there if the girls want they can come and check it out im 19 and have an 8month old and i no how hard it is to bring up a child young
http://groups.msn.com/YoungTeenMummys
hope to see them soon
2007-01-18 16:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too late to avoid the whole idea so you have no choice but to be a great and supportive mom, talk to her alot, stay involved in her life, help her make good choices from this day forward, teach her to love that child she is carrying and plan for the future. You, indeed, will be needed and to have a wonderful relationship with your daughter is key. Remember, it will do no good to condemn now, just show love and help her by teaching her how to be a good parent.
2007-01-18 12:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do the right thing ,try to help your daughter raise this baby if possible or give it up for adoption.Abortion is murder.I had a baby at 14 and it was really hard but my parents helped me raise him and now he is in colledge.Just Love the kid thats what she needs now more than anything and you can take her to parenting class.13 is young but she wont be the first .she just needs help. Dont punish her it wont do any good.Best wishes.
2007-01-19 00:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont even know what to say to this I am in shock and I am wondering why you wait till now to ask that ?I think if you are going to keep this child you get your family in counseling,parenting classes and church cause you are going to need it.Most importantly this child is going to need itI hope that you all can find a better way to parent this child than you did your 13 year old.
2007-01-18 13:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by stegall_sherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u feel about your 13 year daughter being pregnant cuz i am 14 and my mother would not be so proud of me but maybe since your lil cuz and your 13 year old daughter is hanging out instead of being in the house studing u should make them pay for it and let them know the meaning of rasing a baby! and show them that it is not easy and also mention that if their newborn baby was 13 and having sex at a young age ask them how would they feel? but the best answer i could really tell you is to be their for the both of them.
2007-01-18 12:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by sheniqua c 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give them the talk and accept it make them take care of it own just a short lesson to be learned.
2007-01-18 14:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by niece m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's nothing left now except to be supportive to your daughter and if your neice is a part of your life be supportive to her as well.
2007-01-18 17:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany L. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assure that your child gives her baby up for adoption. Separate the two, even if you have to move somewhere else.
2007-01-18 13:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are either not an adult or you do not speak English as your first language.
2007-01-18 13:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is just be there for them and support them.
2007-01-18 12:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by chedderapples 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋