women only. what would you think of this man?

Question

if he gave backrubs, footrubs, talked and listened to you, helped around the house, raised 2 children that werent his, made decent money, provided for the family, and never once cheated, or physically or emotionally abused you. a man who loves you for who you are, not for what you can give or what you look like. and a man who was willing to do whatever it took to keep you happy even watching girly movies with you.

Answer 1

honestly i would think that you were the perfect man and that i wouldnt let you go even if there were some fights. espically raising two kids that aernt yours that is a real man because you kno ne1 can b daddy it takes a real man to be a dad. you deserve better and that women who treated you how she did should realize how good she really had it. dont change for anyone and i m sure you will find someone just as special as you. good luck

Answer 2

Sounds great....
1) If he isn't smothering and controlling
2) Is a confident self assured man, and not clingy
3) If he has a balanced life with friends and hobbies/sports
4) Also wonder about "What you are, how you look, etc.,..." Sounds like some condescension there....Does he respect who she is? Respect for each other is critical in relationships. Love actually comes in second on that score.
5) Why the question? What is the other side of the story?

That kind of question indicates the object of such devotion sees things differently. If that is the case, such a fantastic catch should let go and find someone else who is looking for what sounds like the perfect man. Believe me, there are lots and lots of "someones" who would be thrilled to be with a man who had a fraction of the qualities he has......PROVIDED the answers to my questions are right. If not, the lady in question should run away with the kids as fast as she can. No one should be stuck with a self-righteous jerk.

Answer 3

Everyone woman is different, as you can see from the many different responses that you rcvd.

The things that you are talking about sound very nice, but most of the time they are wasted on someone who doesnt appreciate the little things or has had such things for a long time and chooses to abuse it. Abuse to the point where the man doesnt want to do those things anymore. Then he meets a woman who is deserving, but he cant do it anymore because of what someone else did and said to him.

My suggestion to this "man" is to save these precious things for the person who really and truly deserves them. How do you know if they deserve it or not you ask? You will know because everything you are willing to do for them, they are willing to do for you.

Answer 4

Can he change the oil in my car?
Does he know the difference between a socket wrench and a screwdriver?
Is he capable of holding a discussion on a topic other than his genitalia or sports?
Does he share ANY common interests - or have really interesting interests of his own?

Sounds to me like the guy you are describing is a compilation of all the singles-ads you've ever read. If he did exist, I'd be very wary of him.

Every guy has to have SOME faults - if only to give us a good reason for snarking at him when we're not feeling well.

Answer 5

I would think that wow this man has lots of great features but is there something missing in this description. If indeed these things can be performed on a continuous basis throughout a relationship I think this man is wonderful. It's not enough for one to point out the things that make them great. I think its the flaws that give character and its a matter of finding someone who's flaws you can live with.

Answer 6

He is the dream guy alot of us women have been looking for all our life. You should appreciate what you have and thank the good Lord for bringing him into your life. Remember to thank him and praise him , count your luck stars every day. If you don't want a guy like that there are plenty of woman who do. You have hit the lottery and do not even know it yet. You need to let your children know that they should show him love and affection and give him a thank you for being a father to them when the sperm donor is not there . Go give this man a big hug and kiss and tell him you know how lucky you are to have him in your life.

Answer 7

He seems to be a real good man but I would tell him that a woman enjoys a manly side of a man every now and then and to keep that in mind. For some reason women lose interest and want to test boundaries on a relationship in which a man worships the ground ahe walks on. Remember to be a man and remind her every now and then that you can get another woman.

Answer 8

I think it would be a excellent man to marry, but I have never seen any man do all these things in any marriage. I really don't think they really exist. I think you are talking about a robot not a real man, they just don't make them this attentive. To me this kind of a marriage, if there ever was one would make life a little boring. If someone says they have one like this is either lying or they have never been married or lived with a man.

Answer 9

I would think that he doesn't exsist. Really, it's easy to say that a man will do all of these things, or maybe has done all of these things, but there is always a catch. Really.....there is. He wants something in return, maybe the same things he is giving, or maybe more.

Answer 10

what a man, anyone would be more than happy to have this one. sounds like this is one of those very rare relationships, where this man loves unconditionally, and the only thing on his mind is doing for her, not a bit selfish.