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2007-01-18 03:51:15 · 8 answers · asked by Luis P 1 in Health Men's Health

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that's a tough one. I would go to the doctor just to make sure that there is nothing physically wrong. You know, just to be on the safe side.

If thee is nothing physically wrong then there are various things you can try.

1) There are over the counter creams that you can buy either at the drug store or at your local adult store. One name of the top of my head is man delay. It pretty much numbs your privates out like Novocaine. Only use a little bit like about a small drop. Yes is that strong.

2) Another cause is that you might be over exited about the whole thing. One solution to this problem is to do it (sex) often so you wear out that oh! is new and amazing!!! feeling. Same principle as when you buy a car. It has that new car smell but after a month or so it wears out. Also, if you do it often you will desensitized yourself.

3) You can also try not thinking too much about the task at hand. Think more about the movement or what you are doing more than how it feels. I sometimes think of it like if I where doing exercises. It dist rack your mind.

4) Change position. Some positions can make reach climax faster than others. As soon as you feel that you are reaching the end stop and switch to a new position. Or do other stuff like kissing her neck or something that does not involve moving your privates.

5) One nifty trick is to do what I call a reverse sit-up. This means to move your hip like if you where doing a sit up. Notice that a regular sit up is done by moving your upper body towards your lower body. The reverse sit up moves the lower body towards the upper body. What will happen is that you will get the same pain as when doing many sit-ups. The discomfort will distract you from what you're doing because you will be more concern about the pain than the sex. No worry nothing bad will happen to you. You might even get nice abs.

6) I don't really want to recommend this one but try drinking a few beers or your favorite alcoholic drink. This tend to numb you out and it lowers inhibitions. Be careful not to make it a habit. You may fix one problem but create another one. I mention this one for the sake of being complete but I rather not recommended. Is a good excuse to drink for those who like that kind-of stuff. Of course, like everything in life moderation is the key.

2007-01-18 04:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0 0

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2017-01-26 13:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There is no natural way (neither some artificial one) to treat the early ejaculation till now!

2007-01-18 03:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0 0

since when has PRE-EJACULATION become an illness??? lol

there is ni way. you can wear a condom though w/ spermicide. that would do. but keep it on throught the intercourse.

p.s spell check next time

2007-01-18 03:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0 0

You can try Last Longer, is a Non-hormonal herbal therapy.
-Acts locally on the sex organs.
-Regulates process of ejaculation.
-Acts through neuro-endocrine pathway.
-Acts on the high centers of emotion in the brain.)
or you can try to learn ejaculatory control:
* Don't use drugs or alcohol. They're distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
* Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
* Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the "relaxation" involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It's the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.
* Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
* Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this several times over several sessions. Approach your point of no return, then back off. For most men, it doesn't take long to develop good ejaculatory control while alone.
Then move on to masturbation with a lubricated hand. Use saliva, vegetable oil, or a commercial sexual lubricant. For most people, lubricants increase the sensual intensity of erotic fondling. Follow the same program: Masturbate until you approach your point of no return, then back off. Repeat this several times over several sessions.
* Once you have good control during masturbation, and appreciate whole-body sensuality, and feel comfortable breathing deeply during lovemaking, then you're ready for the couples program -- if you're in a couple. The couple approach is called the "Stop-Start Technique." First, arrange "stop" and "start" signals with your lover, for example, a light pinch or tap, or a tug on an ear.
Then, your lover strokes your penis by hand as you lie still. When you approach your point of no return, give the "stop" signal. Your lover immediately stops stroking you and simply holds your penis gently, as you continue to breathe deeply and pays close attention to the sensations you're feeling. When you no longer feels close to ejaculation, gives the "start" signal, and your lover begins stroking you again. How many stops and starts should you do? A half-dozen over a 15-minute period works well for most couples. Do what feels comfortable for you.

With stop-start, the focus is on the man. He's the one learning the new skill. But don't forget the woman's sensual needs. As part of each practice session, she might guide your hand over her to show you what she likes.

Once you've gained good ejaculatory control with your lover's hand, try the same stop-start procedure with oral caresses. Again, you begin by lying still.

Once you've gained good control orally, feel free to start moving. You're making love again -- but now you have ejaculatory control. Congratulations.

Here are some other suggestions for lasting longer:

2007-01-18 05:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, you could start by learning how to spell it!!

2007-01-18 09:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by Florio 2 · 0 0

you should change your name to minute man

2007-01-18 04:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ejaculation

look up webmd.com

2007-01-18 03:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

get drunk

2007-01-18 03:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by benjamin b 2 · 1 0

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