Will he leave me again for his mom?

Question

I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple years, we have known eachother for 6 years. Our relationship is just like a fairytale, we are both still crazy in love. We ended up in a city hours away from our parents (he finishes his degree in a few months, I am done university and have an excellent job). We lived together for awhile last year and it was amazing - however his mom secretly called him lots telling him to move home, so he left when his school term was done. Now we are dating again (not living together) and she calls my place every night telling him to move home and that he will only find a job with her help and in her city. He is very easily influenced by her, he will tell me that he is going to stay with me and could never be with another, but after he talks to her he says he is appyling for jobs in her city too. I have been doing all I can to build him a network for a better chance at getting a job, I want him to see he can accomplish things on without his moms help

Answer 1

Wake up and leave him the guy will never let go of mamas apron strings

Answer 2

I am so sorry for u...but i guess he is mama's boy ....his mom will continue to influence him in his life primarily..he loves you no doubt but it will always be his mama whom he will follow...some mother's are damn possessive so make sure either u move with him if it is ok with u but living in a diff home not with her but near to her place...
If it is not ok with u u btr quit the relationship or try dragging it as much as u can if u feel so .All the best in life...but seriously he needs u he needs to be with u as well !!

Answer 3

It sounds like you have you already have your answer, unfortunately. He wouldn't be applying for jobs by mommy if he wasn't at least thinking about it. You should sit him down and ask him what is really going on there. It sounds like it could be a HUGE issue if it's not already. Good luck!