i had a fight with my mom
and whenever my friends ask me what happened i tell them because my eyes are all puffed up from crying.
but when i tell my friends my eyes get watery and i wawnt to cry
does this mean i do care about my mom even if i did say mean things to her
or is it just because of no reason?
2007-01-18 03:29:04 · 19 answers · asked by emont_1029 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its means that u care and love your mom alot,,,so dont cry and go and talk to her and everything will be fine,,,
2007-01-22 03:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by loving_caring20052003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mum and fought like cat and dog with my daughter, now she has left home we talk without the shouting as the constant tension has subsided. you do care about your mum just you get angry with her as she will with you.
Time is a great healer. believe me, my lass is now 18 with a beautiful boy of 3 months and we speak every day one the phone we always say ' i love you' at end of the call and she comes to me for advice as well as money( lol). you are crying coz you are upset and hurt by probably both what you said and what your mum said, we all say things in an arguement that we dont actually mean. crying is a natural release as is laughing, bear this in mind and you will be laughing with your mum in time.
And for the folk that say they cant wait to get away from their mum havent quite grown up yet.
Hang in there, you always need your mum and she will always be there for you.
Making the first step also shows lets her know you love her and don't want to keep on fighting, the word sorry will be your first step to a good relationship with her.
Good luck and take care.
2007-01-18 11:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by angelrose0105 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you care about your mom. Everyone makes mistakes with their parents like that. I too had a fight with my mom and I made her cry. I'm still kicking myself for doing it and my mom has been dead for 19 years.
Apologize to her the best you can and make up cause you won't be able to after she's gone. Spend as much time as you can with her and love her while you can cause on day she will be gone. Moms are great things and they are missed so much when they're gone.
2007-01-18 11:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you care about your Mom and feel bad that you said mean things to her. Tell her you are sorry, everything will be OK. You sound like a caring person, everyone has agruments.
2007-01-18 11:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You care. You love her and eventually you will work things out with her but maybe you need to take the first step. Tell her you are sorry for what you said.
2007-01-18 11:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by BooBoo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same boat as you when i was in high school i would go to school crying because of the fights we would have,but yes even after all the fights you still care,i think thats what makes it worse,your famly no matter what you will always care.
2007-01-18 12:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by flower9487 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has fights with there parents, especially teens. Of course you still love her and she loves you. If you said something mean, try forgiving her. Then you probably won't cry anymore.
2007-01-18 11:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anyone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You care for your mom more than u know. It's time to say u are sorry and make amends with her. Then u will feel better and can stop crying.
2007-01-18 11:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Shery W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got it right, you care about your mom. ITs normal. It happened to me. I always hate my parents but everytime something happened to them, i cry easy. IT just that i care about them and glad that they are in my life. YOu grow up with your family and its will be painful for you if something happen to them. ITs ok to cry about it. Why don't you go to your mom and tell her how much you love her and thank to her that she raise you.
2007-01-18 11:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you sound emotional when you talk something very seriously to your friend and i gues you don't cry the day you and mum have a fight. Well it is natural to cry and take out from your mind.
2007-01-18 11:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋