I made a big mistake at a party with some of my junior classmates. I feel very frustrated. I lost all dignity adn want to move. Me and two guys were playing an adult board game with 5 girls from our cheerleading team at one of the girls houses. In the end, I had to get nude in front of the others. All 7 of them were sitting on the couch when I walked in naked. I had to stand that way for 5 minutes. Well, when I came out, they (even the guys) were mocking my half inch penis and then as time went on, I got an erection of 3.5 inches. The girls were laughing hysterically waving their pinkys at each other and to make matters worse the two other guys, pulled their trunks down and showed they were twice as big as me. I am getting ridiculed by everyone at school. Should I tell on them to my principal?
2007-01-18 03:03:46 · 23 answers · asked by DreDay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why in God's green earth would you remove your clothes in front of so many people??? Have you no self esteem? Is peer pressure that great that you (this includes your friends, etc) feel you have to do 'what everyone else is doing'?
I cannot believe that we have sunk this low in our society.
As for your wishing to rat on your classmates, what are you going to say?? You weren't on school property, the event did not include the school in any remote way, what would be the point?
Time erases most things. Start off today and don't be bothered by what other people say (and do). Learn to say 'No', to anything, like drugs, drinking, getting nude. Basically, Get A Life (of your own). Don't follow the crowd.
Do I sound like your mom or grandma? Jeez kid, I hope so.
2007-01-18 03:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you would do this in the first place BUT you can't tell your principal. This issue has nothing to do with school at all. You simply made a mistake and are going to have to deal with the consequences for a while. 16 year olds usually forget about things like that after a while so just hang on tight. And next time someone asks you to get nude, think about it first. Then maybe you won't get made fun of.
2007-01-18 03:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by Dirty.Little.Secret. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This too shall pass. Look at it this way, they are being mean to you, they are leaving someone else who is more insecure alone. I am surprised it got as big as that. And it sounds like this was your first and last time playing with these people, this game anyways. I don't think I will tell anyone but I would keep anyone else from going through it. Take heart, God don't like ugly. You don't have to take any action just watch what happens.
Next, shame on you playing these games with this crowd anyways, you should have known better. This type of group feeds on others feelings. If you did not know this, you do now. Don't fall for this kind of fun again.
2007-01-18 03:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Miki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they should be laughing. They shouldn't worry about the size of your penis, they should worry about the person on the inside. Well, if you tell your principal and those other kids find out you told, they might beat you up. If you have parents that will listen to you and support you then tell them. If you tell your principal, tell him/her to keep it anonomous. If you want to talk I'm 16 too but I'm a female and I don't think that makes a difference. You can email me anytime. Greencatz09@yahoo.com.
2007-01-18 03:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ella 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. when you're somewhat honest with your self, the reality is that your want to "snitch" is a want for revenge--its that straightforward. As on your emmbarassment--learn out of your mistake--yet do not blame others on your man or woman stupid habit. That being stated--you should communicate over such as your mothers and fathers--ideally your father about this--you'd be in for a demanding time at school, a minimum of for a lengthy time period. you'll want his help. And the following is slightly o f"individual" attitude: a mess of toddlers take care of to do dumb issues like you probably did--in reality the overall public at one time or yet another. by technique of coincidence, you landed your self in a particularily embarrassing situation. yet you probably did no longer something drastically "incorrect." it truly is more effective than i'll claim for a mess of toddlers. in basic terms %. up the products of your dignity, learn from this--and take the consequences. Welcome to being an individual--and good success. :)
2016-10-15 09:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why did you do it anyway? heck no don't tell the principal.that was your choice going to the party and playing the game .you should of known better.
just blow it off and maybe it will go away.
the choices we make in life are not pretty,but we all live and learn.
you might want to skip the next couple of parties in the future.
p.s your 2 young to be playing adult games
2007-01-18 03:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because thats not really going to help anything at all. There only going to keep laughing because you told. Im also 16 and school can be tough. I have tumors and sometimes people make fun of me because of that but i just ignore them. Soon they will be making fun of someone else so dont worry it will pass. I know its hard but just keep strong.
2007-01-18 03:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by morenita12162 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell on them for what? Come on dude, you knew there was going to be back-lash from this. So take it like a man, in time things will brush over. But when it does, don't show it again.
2007-01-18 03:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it will only create further embarrassment... in front of adults... Go on and be strong... don't let them bother you. You don't have too much longer in school... Next year s/b your last year, and you will probably move in a different crowd, and then when u graduate, you don't have to worry about them anymore...right... Lots of luck...
2007-01-18 03:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by momof3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are you going to tell the Principal? that you took off y our clothes and stood there naked for 5 min, and they are making fun of your size?
2007-01-18 03:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋