i met this guy one year ago loss touch
reunite 2 months ago .
now we been living together three weeks
he does not touch me hugs me sometime we don't talk
he sleeps on the couch watches tv don't spend time stay out two days don't call said he was busy
2007-01-18 03:01:42 · 30 answers · asked by venessa h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What was the situation that he ended up moving in with you or vise versa? If he was the one who needed the help financially.... it an easy answer. He doesn't feel like a man. I went through this one. And yeah it doesn't get much better. If you needed help..... he may feel trapped. If it was a mutual thing or just kind of happened.... maybe he's having second thoughts. or maybe he's confused.
I sincerely hope he hasn't hurt you in any way and your not scared... been through that too.
Communication, communication communication! Talk to him!!! Figure out what the problem is. No one should have to come home and feel that kind of strain after a long day of whatever you do. Home should be a place to relax and feel comfortable.
Don't be afraid of being alone, or hurting his feelings. Put
yourself first, especially if its your home not his.
Good luck!
2007-01-18 03:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by hislilnena00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you supporting this guy? If you are get rid of him, he is not interested in you, he is using you for something. You are wasting your time and he is wasting your time. If he helps you pay bills then maybe you ought to rethink your relationship and just be friends instead of wanting more than he can give to you. If he is not paying any bills throw him out on his ear and say so long. Don't let him play you for a fool.
2007-01-18 03:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by jlynncogbill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth it then, he just wants a place to sleep and watch TV. Yeah he is busy alright, he is probably with another girl sleeping on her couch.
2007-01-18 03:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by may s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move in together after 5 weeks? Perhaps you should have gotten to know him a little better first. That's probably the way he is and won't change.
Please don't reproduce.
2007-01-18 03:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dude is living a double life. Kick him out now before you get in too deep
2007-01-18 03:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being used. You deserve better. Kick his sorry butt out now! Even casual friends treat each other with more affection than this clod is showing you.
2007-01-18 03:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to look at yourself and ask why would I even think of or be interested at all in this type of lazy, no ambition, couch sleeping, manipulative loser.
2007-01-18 03:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The writting is on the wall!!!!! sounds like he just wants a room mate, not a serious relationship
2007-01-18 03:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kathy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may be using you for a place to stay. get rid of him he is definitely not worth it! find some one that will love you and take care of you! Good luck
2007-01-18 03:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like you are running a flop house than having a relationship. HE IS USING YOU!! Boot his sorry butt to the curb!
2007-01-18 03:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋