I know that it's hard cause you are probably still in love with him, but thats not something you want to do! Trust me, I did it so many times, and it always happened out the same! They might tell you that they have changed and in some cases they do. This is how I look at it 1 time, give them a second chance, 2 times shame on you, 3 times shame on me! You get what Im saying? Yes, if they were truley in love with you they wouldn't hurt you like that!
2007-01-18 03:09:50
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answered by Anonymous
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No, if they truly love you then they cant imagine hurting you in any way and would rather died than to be the one to hurt you. I was going back to a man who hurt me time and time again until i met my husband who showed me what love is and how love feels. Let this one goa nd pray about it, put your trust in God and He will send you the right man!!!
2007-01-18 03:00:20
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answered by marinewife 3
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I have only to be hurt yet again. There has to come a time when you say enough is enough. If they have already hurt you multiple times you can bet it will happen again. The only thing you can do to stop it is to not be there.
2007-01-18 03:03:27
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answered by JustMe 6
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Do you still love him? are kids involved? If you love him I would make him seek counceling (and prove he is doing so). And then i would take it slow make him prove himself trustworthy again. There is no quick fix for people who hurt people over & over. It takes time.
2007-01-18 03:07:37
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answered by earthangel_candy 4
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only if you lack self esteem and think you can't do better. unfortionately, many women do. to paraphrase an old saying, hurt me once, shame on you; to hurt me twice, shame on me!!
2007-01-18 03:03:03
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answered by Al B 7
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I did twice only to have my heart broken again. So no dont do it, move on.
2007-01-22 02:30:02
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answered by canteloupesweet 2
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No. I have self respect and dignity.
2007-01-18 03:02:13
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answered by Anonymous
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Not if you are smart and have respect for yourself.
2007-01-18 02:58:35
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answered by bottleblondemama 7
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no...I am much smarter than that....I don't repeat my mistakes, I learn from them...good luck
2007-01-18 02:59:16
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answered by Anonymous
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yes...don't know why?
2007-01-18 02:59:17
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answered by Nicky 3
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