I am a woman that desperately wants to have children but am unable to because of low sperm count in my husband. Getting the sperm from a sperm bank is so costly, so I am hoping that I could find a compatible male that would do me the favor of getting me pregnant, with no fear of me ever coming after him for anything for the baby. I am not going to leave my husband but don't want him to feel inadequate, so I won't be sharing this idea with him. This means I would need a man that shares the same characteristics as my husband, including blood type.
Is there anyone out there who would HELP ME OUT???
2007-01-18 02:52:12 · 9 answers · asked by ~Daria~ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Well, I have mentioned it to my husband on th phone and he is considering it.
We have considered going through fertility treatments, but they are tooooo costly.
Hubby would like to meet the guy and have the final say on who he will allow to impregnate me.
What we are looking for is a guy at least 6' tall, white skinned, eye color not a factor, because we have several different colors on both sides, hair color is also not important. We would like to have someone with blood type-A+.
As for the child, he will be told, at an appropriate age, that he is the result of a donor, but that the donor was annonomous, so the guy need not fear that a child will approach him one day.
Now, is there anyone in the Chicagoland area that could help us out?
2007-01-18 03:23:28 · update #1
Well, my initial thought here was to propose this idea to my husband being as he is rather fertile, but in reading your question it appears as though you plan to do this without your husbands knowledge. I'm sorry, but opinions being what they are I will express mine, that doesn't mean you have to take it to heart. I think it's quite wrong of you to go about this without his knowledge. Also, blood type's matching alone will not prevent you're husband from ever finding out this isn't his biological child. That's a DNA factor. If you are wanting to do this by utilizing someone else's sperm you might want to check into some pro-bono work that some specialist will do. They are willing to take the sperm from a willing donor and transplant it into you. Alot of times this is done free as a pro-bono account for them. The Doctor can use it as a tax right off or experimental case for their "quota". If that's a route you are willing to take than I'm sure there are some men out there that would be willing to help. Contact me should you want help in this endeavor and best of Luck to you!
2007-01-18 03:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight, you just publicly asked someone to get you pregnant, I wonder how many offers you are going to get.
If I wasn't fixed already I might be tempted to throw my hat in, but I should probably get serious instead.
Not knowing your situation I would have to emphatically suggest that you do not follow this course of action.
Two real good reasons come to mind.
1: For this child's entire life you will look upon him/.her as a lie you are keeping from your husband which can lead to feelings of cheating on him..
2: Sooner or later your husband will find out
3: One day you are going to get into an argument with your husband, are you sure you will be able to resist throwing this little gem of a secret at him?
Low sperm counts doesn't mean you can't have his baby, You can have his sperm injected into one of your eggs, you can try the old methods of standing on your head for a few minutes afterward (Gravity helps the sperm move to its target faster).
If you want a baby, you are better off doing whatever it takes to make it his baby. If you really just want another guy for a night... Well my wife reads this site so I had better stop right here.
2007-01-18 03:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by cobra2140 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be very careful. If you conceve a child in this way you are deceiving your hisband and the child. What if there are heriditary diseases that the child needs to know about? What if the child grows up to marry it's half sister etc. wouldn't it be better to be completely honest with your husband? Isn't trust and honesty what strong long lasting relationships are built on? There is no reason for your husband to feel inadequate anyway - he should talk things through with his doctor.
2007-01-18 03:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Chrisssy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS A BIG TALL ORDER , I'M SORRY BUT NOT TELLING YOUR HUSBAND WHAT YOUR PLANNING IS ONLY GOING TO CAUSE TROUBLE. YOU BOTH HAVE TO WANT THIS, AND ITS NOT FAIR TO YOUR HUSBAND IF HE DOES NOT HAVE A SAY IN THE MATTER.. BUT DON'T DO IT BEHIND HIS BACK. YOU HAVE TO HAVE TRUST IN YOUR MARRIAGE, AND HOW IS HE GOING TO FEEL IF YOU DO IT BEHIND HIS BACK, AND ITS NOT FAIR FOR THE CHILD EITHER. THINK HARD BEFORE YOU DO THIS INSANE THING.
2007-01-18 02:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you give me more details as far as what you are looking for? Hair color, eye color, body type, blood type, etc. Perhaps I could help. My wife says she is OK with it. Thanks.
2007-01-18 03:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to donate my sperms... if somebody needs it email me: ashwinagarwal29@gmail.com
2014-07-30 21:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this makes for good entertainment.
2007-01-18 03:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by loveangelmusicbabies 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I MAY BUT AM IN AFRICA AND A BLACK THIS IS MY EMAIL
r.akakpo@yahoo.com
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-18 03:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by awana 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We should talk. Please email!
2007-01-18 17:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by billybb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋