I live with my boyfriend ( he is 3 years older then me). One day I got off work early and came home. I heard music playing in our apartment, and I guess they didn't hear me come in. When I stepped into the bedroom I saw this guy sitting on the bed and my boyfriend giving him a b-l-o-w-j-o-b. They both turned around and looked at me. I was so shocked I ran out.
Now I am sitting at my friends house and I don't know if I can go back. I fell like crap! My boyfriend keeps calling me but I don't pick up. What can I do?
2007-01-18 02:52:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dump him. He's a cheater.
Ugh all the rude disgusting answers other people are giving you.
2007-01-18 04:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are going to have to face the music sooner or later. eventually you are going to have to talk to your boyfriend. but if I were you, I would wait just a little bit and then when the time comes you need to address the situation head on, but gently. if you come off to strong the issue may get worse and out of control. your best bet is to talk to him with someone else in the same house. maybe in another room. and especially someone that can defend you if need be. when you attack a mans masculinity he will get very defensive and some times violent so be careful. I am sorry this happened to you, but it sounds like he has known he is gay or bi for a long time and he should have discussed it with you. good luck.
2007-01-18 11:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all seriousness, you should get yourself checked for HIV/AIDS and other various STI's. He is putting you at risk for infection which means he does not care for your well being or he is just irresponsible. No relationship is worth risking your health. You should talk to your boyfriend and ask him why he is doing this. If he is homosexual or BI that is his choice but it wrong to involve you in risky behavior without your consent. If you are fine with it, then that's your choice. If you aren't fine with it, terminate the relationship now. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-18 12:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by cjfox18 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Er.. join in?
I dunno. I think you need to talk to him. If you're living with him, well, he's cheating on you. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman. If there is sex going on and you're not invited, or at least made aware... And Oral Sex is Sex by the way. You really need to have a conversation. He could be giving you diseases. How rude of him.
2007-01-18 10:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by kaplah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
force him to be your crossdressing sissy,then go find a real man and use the sissy to clean you up after you have been with the real man.
now that would be great for you both
2007-01-18 23:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by maryjo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you were not excited by it and were freaked out about it, there is nothing more to do than end the relationship and move out. Find a good girlfriend and move in with her instead.
2007-01-18 10:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by MrKnowItAll 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Join In!!
2007-01-18 12:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,he's obviously not straight. So,unless you want to walk into more of this,or you're bi,and want to participate,I'd say,tell him GOODBYE
2007-01-18 16:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it now!!!! Go back and throw his stuff out the window, change the locks and you and your pals have a big party......he was in the wrong
2007-01-18 14:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back and have a threesome, buy a huge dildo and screw him in the b*tt for cheating on you...Pick one...I say do the threesome.
2007-01-19 06:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋