I have begun to suspect that my husband is cheating on me. He swears that he isn't but I can smell another woman's perfume on him when he comes home. And there have been times when he just disappears for a few hours.
He tells me that he was just out running errands and stuff. But I keep imagining him in the arms of another woman.
It doesn't help matters that I am seven months pregnant with our first child.
He says that he loves me and that he only wants to be with me. But lately I have had my doubts. What is going on really
2007-01-18 02:39:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It could be that pregnancy hormones are making you believe things that aren't true, OR it could mean that he is cheating. I'm very sorry for you if he is cheating espeically if you are pregnant with his child. If he is cheating, that is the lowest thing a person can do to another person in my opinion. the only way to know for sure is to either hire a private detective, or to follow him around yourself. look in the garbages at home to find a phone number, read his cell phone bill if he has one, drop by at work unexpectedly, ask him to tell you where he is at all times, ask to go with him when he runs out for a few hours. Ask him outright if he is cheating on you.
2007-01-18 02:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't suspect anything. Don't accuse him of anything but if you really want to know figure out a way of finding out where he goes when he disappears. Women sometimes wonder what their men really do and if something doesn't seem right, they automatically assume that they're cheating. Especially now that you're pregnant, you just worry much more. I can't tell you what's going on, but I suggest you find out (hire someone if you have to or have someone follow him) for your piece of mind. If he isn't cheating on - that's great, but if he is, leave him and find someone who won't (not that we ever know who those guys are :o) Good Luck and Congrats on your pregnancy.
2007-01-18 10:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by K9Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww, im sorry thsi is just too cute, you just feel insecure because your pregnant and your body is changing, dont worry, i went thorugh the same thing with my first child...turns out the perfume was from my mom, he was going over there talking to my dad about how to deal with my mood swings and he would always hug my mom before he left! My mom confirms this so im not stupid or anything, she even let me smell the perfume. Just relax and trust your husband until you have solid proof.
2007-01-18 10:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by marinewife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both under a huge amount of stress... it's natural to begin having doubts at this stage. He's worried...you're worried... keep the lines of communication open by voicing your fears to him. Find out what his fears are... right now your afraid of the unkown...He probably is too. You both need to hold hands and face this together, the pregnancy may have just "happened" (unplanned) or you may have decided it was time... regardless of the situation talking to him is better than letting the suspicion fester
2007-01-18 10:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to talk to him about it. not to scare you but when i was 7 months pregnant i found that my husband was haveing an emotional affair with a 17 year old at work, they had been texting dirty things to each other. i got the phone records and chewed him out for it, then i threw him out. that was 2 months ago. I really do hate him and not trust him now but i have to stick it out for the baby!
his reasoning behind this was that i wasn't paying enough attention to him and that he felt that he came second to the baby. (selfish, i know!)
2007-01-18 11:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The poor guy is going to stipclubs. If you smell his shorts when ge goes to bed you will know for sure. check his computer for dating sites and porno sites. go get him girl. In the mean time get your self simmered down. take deep breathing exercies. dont worry, be happy. you are about to become a mon. now that is all you should have on your mind. how fortunate you are.
2007-01-18 11:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by veerfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is cheating to me. Check this out Here are some warning signs that your spouse could be cheating on you.
* Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.
* Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.
* There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship. Your sex life is practically non-existent.
* Your spouse has a low self-esteem.
* You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self.
* You spouse has become lazy, especially around the house.
* You can't get your spouse to communicate with you.
* Your spouse gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.
* Your spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual.
* Your mate is working longer hours at work.
* Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer.
2007-01-18 10:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cannot tell you what's going on.
He might be going to a strip club and paying women to crawl all over him. He might be cheating on you.
Who knows. You need to find out. Hire a private investigator to follow him if you have to.
2007-01-18 10:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not know what is going on here.... Follow him at times and see what he does and where he goes... Hire a private detective.
2007-01-18 10:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋