went through a break up ...am taking time off of work....need a cool hobby...im a mess
any responses would be helpful
2007-01-18 02:18:34 · 9 answers · asked by jessys3000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-01-18 02:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not worry at all. Yours is not a solitary or a unique case. Also, do not ever take the blame on yourself. Break, to be sure is caused by a two-way failure. However, you need not blame anybody for this as well. Take it in your cool mind and begin thinking positive about life.
Life is a precious opportunity granted and no moment should be allowed to go waste. You were born alone and will quit this world alone as well. It is only during the intervening period that the need for a life partner is felt. However, it may be that one enters and then exits. Please treat this also a part of life.
Read books on relationships and know more about stories of break ups. You will find beautiful perspectives in these accounts. Who knows, you may restart your life with a bang and to the astonishment of the entire world. Groom, boom and zoom!
Apart from reading, meet people and know as much about them as possible. Foster more friendships. Revive old friendships and get chord-ed. They will surely protect you against possible loneliness and melancholy. Ready poetry, if interested. View good movies. Eat out with friends, if possible. Shoot sights and scenarios with camera and then watch your creations with rapt attention and appreciation. They will all prove to be confidence boosters for you. Good luck.
2007-01-18 02:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by braj k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress! big killer. big. Stress can make you a mushroom. OK now for the cure. Walking! see that was easy. Go for log walks. If you are a city dweller then take a transit to any part of your city that is safe. Just walk walk walk. look around your environment soon you Will forget your problems and see life outside your circle. Walk in the parks. observe people. but walk walk walk. In one week get back on this answers and tell everybody how good you feel. I love you. every body loves you don't we folks!!
2007-01-18 02:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by veerfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't go through a break up but I am very stressed and doc has me on xanax & valume cuz of my ****mom. but that's another issue. ANYWAY LOL I have found that coming to this site has helped me soooooooooo much. Just reading & knowing other ppl have problems too & seeing how they cope. I love answering too maybe i can help someone. This site is very therapudic if you let it be. I've found I am having to take less stress meds now.
2007-01-18 02:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What interest you? Dancing, Reading, Ceramics, I have alot of friends that are into Pottery (like from the Ghost movie). It is really up to you, you know better what sparks your interest, but for sure right now you need to stay buzy, listen to uplifting music, wtach comedys on TV and Get out of the house. Go out and do things with friends.. it will get better
2007-01-18 02:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitley find a hobby and you need to get back to work... Try counseling and making new friends too and you may want to start slowly dating again.... You need to move on with your life.
2007-01-18 02:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO TO A PLACE WHERE YOU CAN DO COMMUNITY WORK, HELP THE NEEDY, ABUSED WOMEN OR THE WEAK ELDERLY, IT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF AND MAKE YOU APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE AND NOT BE DOWN ABOUT WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE.
2007-01-18 02:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by AV8R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray to God hes the only one that will give you peace in your storm. God bless you.
2007-01-22 02:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by morena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get a massage
2007-01-18 02:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋