I have a gay friend and he says that he is into males, sexually and emotionally and has a boyfriend, but he says that he also loved a very few girls as well, but that was only emotional, he felt nothing sexual.
2007-01-18 02:00:54 · 17 answers · asked by me 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am gay,so I only have sex with men..
But love is a different thing all together.
I do have some female friends that i love dearly:
But that is on an emotional level,nothing physical at all.
Some of them stay overnight,we take a bath together,drink some smoke some and sleep in the same bed.
There is not a bit of sex going on at all
But I do love them.
And i care about my friends,but I can only love one guy at the same time:He gets it all.I am a very committed person.
Greetings:Rob.xxx
2007-01-18 03:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has the potential to love, however as a gay male, I would say that there are many differnet kinds of love. Ya, I love my family, my friends and my female friends, but not in the same way I love my boyfriend.
The emotional connection your friend speaks about is probably just that... Dont you love your friends. I think if you spoke to him more deeply about it, he would reveal that he actually doesnt love love them in the same way one would a partner.
I just hope you arent keeping a secret glimmer of hope that one day it might be you (or another girl)...
TC xxx
2007-01-18 02:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can love all type of people. I am a straight man, and there are a few men that I love with all my heart. I would give my life for them. It is completely emotional, and nothing sexual. (And one of them is a very good looking guy, I just still can't bring my self to lusting after him.)
B
2007-01-18 02:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of this happening. I knew a (hot!) gay man who could get any young hot guy he wanted. He did date a female, about 20 years his senior and not what most would consider attractive in any way. But he said he loved her soul.
BUT, I also think that some gay guys are really bi and scared to admit it. In the gay world, it seems to be unaccepted to be bisexual. They feel they must be either or. This confuses me, because I thought that being who you are is supposed to be the theme of the gay lifestyle. Stifling your true feelings goes against that.
2007-01-18 02:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by reginachick22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so, I've heard the same. They are just more emotional, and maybe need a female's shoulder to cry on at times. I love my gay friends!
2007-01-18 02:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I have several female friends and love them dearly but I'd never even think of them sexually at all.
That type of love is separate from the love one feels for a spouse.
2007-01-18 02:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is a multi layered thing in the sense that people don't always fit into nice neat boxes of same sex/opposite sex exclusive relationships. Therefore of course men can be attracted to the same sex and the opposite sex, but then technically speaking they are not gay, but Bi!
2007-01-18 09:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because that is true for your friend does not mean it is true all the time for everyone. People are all different remember? That's what make the world so interesting.
2007-01-18 03:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can love other men like a brother. I would feel such a major blow if my best friend I have known most of my life died. Of course they can, they are human.
2007-01-18 02:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by Damn Good Dawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are thousands of homosexual men and women who have children and are or were married.
Research the meaning of "On the Down Low."
2007-01-18 02:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by ghostwriter 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋