I have a roomate,a bestfriend, and a really good friend. My bestfriend I really have mad feelings for but I also have a boyfriend on top of that. So my really good friend let my roomate talk to my bestfriend and now she likes him but it has only been two days into their conversation. I told my bestfriend and my roomate how I felt about it. But they still are talkin to this day. I told my boyfriend but he didnt say nothing. He was like just dont get out of hand with your bestfriend. so help me please.
2007-01-18 01:14:49 · 8 answers · asked by Sexy Diva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
So you are saying that you have a guy best friend that you have the hots for and your boyfriend is not mad about it??? And your friends are just ignoring you when you tell them how you feel??? Sounds like you are in a stand still.
2007-01-18 01:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by toothfairy.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with your bestfriend, dump your boyfriend and go for your bestfriend. Otherwise, let your roommate and bestfriend be together. If you don't, you'll just be holding the two of them back for effectively nothing, and you'd be acting very selfishly. Also, once the ball is rolling, it likely won't stop, so they'd start dating or hooking up behind your back if you make it difficult for them, and you'll end up losing a bestfriend and a roommate.
2007-01-18 09:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jordan X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if your boyfriend doesn't care that you got the hots for some other guy/girl (unclear) then what is he doing behind your back?! Second it sounds like you need to stop being selfish. You can't have your cake and eat it to. And you show know that pushing the issue on your best friend when you already tied down to someone, is only going to make you lose your best friend.
2007-01-18 09:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by hislilnena00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing that could come out of that jumbled mess is an orgy.
You sentences run on with no meaning , sometimes they end before a point was made.
I agree with the first answer , rewrite this question and repost it. Take your time , some of us have all day.
2007-01-18 09:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Vincent W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm sounds like they're into each other whether you like it or not, I'm surprised yoou told your boyfriend how you feel?? or did you?? Hmm I don't think he knows that you have feeling for your best friend,unless he's abit of a doormat.
2007-01-18 09:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by pinkydixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back and figure out which relationships are most important to you and which bridges you are willing to burn. What is most important to you, your boyfriend, your roomies, your best friend, or your friend?
2007-01-18 09:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ... I'm not trying to be rude, but if you re-read this question, I think you'll see that it doesn't make any sense. Try rewording your question to be more clear about what happened and what you're asking.
2007-01-18 09:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by danika1066 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this does not make one lick of sence!!! read and re write.
2007-01-18 09:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by swimmyfishy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋