In march my parents are taking divorce, i will do anything to stop them from doing this, i cant live widout even one of them, wat can i do so that they dont take this disasterous step? What can i do so that they start loving each other? Please suggest me something, its really serious and i cant tolerate it
2007-01-18 00:45:39 · 15 answers · asked by Hellraiser420 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
TALK TO THEM.
2007-01-18 15:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do to get your parents back together.......I am sorry that somehow you feel so responsible for the two of them......because you're not......they are the adults......if you are in school maybe you could go and talk to your school counselor about the divorce....normally two adults getting a divorce does not force a child to have to live without one of their parents.....you need someone other than yahoo to talk too.....please tell your parents how afraid you are of losing one of them......it won't mean they will stop the divorce but hopefully they will maybe be able to stop and help you get some support during this time.....good luck to you
2007-01-18 08:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mum3grls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First relax. Take a deep breath.
There is nothing you can do to MAKE them love each other or change their minds. Chances are they STILL love each other. Something has happened that has made them grow apart. They have worked on it and decided that the marriage is over. this is unfortunate for you, but you will just have to trust them to know what is best for them.
BTW divorce doesn't mean one of them will leave forever. You will still be in their lives.
There is nothing you can do, because the divorce is not your fault.
2007-01-18 08:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by Richard Bricker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're forcing your ideas, on them. Would you want them to tell you how to Live? Certainly not. You'd move away in a minute. Let them sort all of this out. They need you to be their Son. Both do. Life has challenges. Yours' will come in time. You'll need their Love when you do.
2007-01-18 08:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threaten them, that you will depart them , if they can't think of your sentiments. There should be a collective decision in a 'FAMILY'. Remind them of their responsibility. And also the future consequences.
I am sure, they will understand. There is nothing , which can't be resolved. I fully believe, they are not coward & selfish, but a matured parents.
My best wishes are with you and your family. May God bless them ,POSITIVE ATTITUTDE.
2007-01-18 09:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There probably is not much you can do to stop it from happening. But you didn't cause it either. One thing you can do is to request that all of you (family) to go to family counseling. Maybe thing will get better. If your parents don't know, tell them most health insurance companies cover counseling, so all they have to pay is co-pay.
2007-01-18 08:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by spot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how it is affecting you and if they care more about divorcing than raising you...they are rotten and selfish; and point out that children of divorce are 80 times more likely to die of a drug overdose, and 20 times more likely to commit a violent crime. Statistics are there...
2007-01-18 08:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing you can do. People who should not be married need to get divorced. Sucks to be the kid in the situation, but your parents are not looking out for you right now, they are looking out for themselves. Good luck.
2007-01-18 08:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by mystery_me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing that you can do. This is strictly between your parents. There's no reason for someone to be with someone if it won't make them happy. If you're only doing this for yourself, then you're being selfish.
2007-01-18 09:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by Reggie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them and let them know how you feel.. Apparently they are not happy.. so do you really want to see them remain unhappy if they stay together just for you ?? I don't mean for that to sound mean but really , let them do what they need to do to be happy. You will still be loved by them both.. you will still have both.......it will be different and hard for you to adjust to the change, talk to friends with same issues and maybe to counsler at school..
2007-01-18 08:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lavender 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it has nothing to do with you and you need to stop trying to interfere.....they are adults and only they can decide whether they should stay together or get a divorce....just love them both and support them....do not take sides or try to make either one of them feel worse then they probably do already....good luck
2007-01-18 08:49:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋