how do u know if someone is really yur bestfriend i known this girl for going on 3 years but her family pretends to like me and they get mad when i come over itry to invite my friend over my house but shes afraid because she has an anxcity but she has gotton alot better but shes still afraid what should i do ??? also how do u know if people are talking behind your back and how do u deal with impossible people ????
2007-01-18 00:41:47 · 5 answers · asked by ~Shan~ aka Shannon B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, examine her actions.
You said that she has anxiety. Does she go anywhere? does she go to other people's houses? Yes, she could have some anxiety. But, she oculd also be telling you that she is either ashamed of your friendship or something.
Why doesn't her family like you?
Are your values different than hers?
It is hard to know whether her family would rather you not hang out with her.
Or whether she is ashamed of you when other friends are around.
But, if you are her best friend, then, you should talk to her and tell her your concerns.
Does she go anywhere in public with you?
Have you talked to her about her family's strange reactions?
If her family does not like you for some reason, then, they won't let her come to your house, either.
You will have to talk with her more to understand the situation.
Ask her to be brutally honest.
2007-01-18 01:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by JAN W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my definition of a best friend is someone who hang out with a lot, feel comfortable with, and someone you can really be yourself with. Try hanging out more with her at school to get her more comfortable with you. Invite her to the park or try getting her tickets to go to a theme park with you and your friend and just a day dedicated to fun. Also, just ignore impossible people who talk behind your back. Whatever false accusations they make will be proven wrong sooner or later.
2007-01-18 01:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK HOMIE THIS IS WHATS UP. HER PARENTS ACT LIKE THEY LIKE U BECUAUSE U R THEIR DAUGHTERS BESTFRIEND. BUT THIS IS HOW U KNOW IF SHE IS REALLY YOUR BESTFRIEND. IF SHE TRUSTES U WITH ALL HER HEART. TEST HER TRUST LEVEL BY DOING LITTLE STUFF. BUT MAYBE THERE IS SOMETHING ABOUT HER THAT U DONT KNOW THATS WHY SHE HAS ANXIETY MATBE.JUST LET THEM KNOW THAT THEY CAN TALK ABOUT U BEHIND YOUR BACK BUT IF THEY AINT GOT THE BALLS TO SAY IT IN YOUR FACE U HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT.
2007-01-18 01:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont; trust her too, if you asked the question. so, you better to build up the trust with each other.
friendship needs to take time and experience, and i really ahve my best friend to past all the good adn bad time to count on each other too.
i hope you will take time to make her feel better, more improtantly, you can build frinedship with eahc other from tiem to time.
2007-01-18 01:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by Tracy But 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way is to ignore them and their pathetic existence.
2007-01-18 00:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋