Some peolpe say it is a combination of all theese things. However I have found that I have always been attracted to people with similar values, family first, money is not important, e.t.c... I know you might say this is common, but I know a couple who have christian values,( very accepting, loving christian values!) who are friends with an athiest gay couple who have very different values- Yet their personalities are similar, and the differences in their values are respected and often bring life to some of the most brilliant conversations I have ever heard. So do you think that if we are attracted to one aspect of a person- beauty, brains, personality,e.t.c... that none of the other parts that make up that person actually matter? And what do you think you are most attracted to? Do you notice a pattern? I must say I am still thinking about my own answers.....
2007-01-17 23:08:49 · 5 answers · asked by animalluvr 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
For me it's definitely personality. That person must draw my attention by his/her sparkling personality and character. Everything else that you have mentioned is also very important but the personality can make wonders :)
Hope I helped :)
2007-01-17 23:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Idanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when it first comes to meeting a guy, I'm going to be attracted to looks/beauty. No offence, but it's not very appealing to have some balding overweight man drooling over you, trying to pick you up.
However, beauty isn't everything, and it all comes down to personality for me. Because there's no point having the smarts or values if you don't have a personality to make you seem appealing ALL THE TIME. Money on the other hand... ;)
2007-01-17 23:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by stina_rox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to say brain or values, but definitely is beauty and personality what most attracts me.
2016-03-14 07:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go for personality first, if they make me laugh or are good to be around i dont notice that their not technicly gorgeus,
if they dont care about money, not in the spend faster than can earn way, we get on well. Friends are also high on the commitment list, if a guy leaves his best mates in the lurch he could do it to you. trust is a massivly inportant thing, without a bit of trust all relationships are headed for the shitter. and opinions i dont like people who sit on the fence for everything, people who know their own mind are great.
2007-01-17 23:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good personality is the first thing in my book. then there are other factors which enter into the equation, however, money is the least important of all. looks are secondary as I happen to be a balding, pot - bellied, handicapped old man.
2007-01-18 00:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty! money!
2007-01-18 01:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by rimi j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋