I am a 13 years old boy who has an emo poseur friend. She acts like as if she is the creator of emo style and acts really rude to me but not her friends. She treats me like a slave and I had to do everything for her. I feel really depressed and she constantly calls me 'gay'. I cannot disobey her because she is too strong for me to compete with physically.
I tried slitting my wrist and ignored her but she always comes to me and starts to bother me again.
She doesn't understand people like me who are realy in crisis of depression and such. Everything I do is 'gay' to her but not if done by other people.
I said I am going to turn emo if I continued to live my life abiding her rules and she just tells me: "You look gay and Asian, Asians can't be emo."
I can't tolerate the stress anymore. Someone please help me.
If you have msn, feel free to add me at: rickraviv@hotmail.com.
Thanks a lot. <3
2007-01-17 23:05:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The girls a loser.
Follow your own path. She'll realise soon enough that you don't need or rely on her opinion, which will make her do one of two things.....she will either start being nice to you and start respecting who you are or she will get nasty.
If she gets nasty, walk away. You don't have to tolerate that sort of bullying behaviour. Walk away and keep yourself open for other friends who (chances are) have been scared away by her. Keep on ignoring her, she cant be following you forever. If she does, she obviously doesnt have a life of her own, she feels a need to live it through you. Dont give her the time of day.
I know depression is hard and lonely, but for every dark tunnel you walk through in this life, there is always light. You have to stay strong. Talk to someone, an adult, a teacher, someone you trust about how you feel if you dont want counselling. And please, whatever you do, don't slit your wrists anymore. Thats taking emo waaaay too far, no matter how depressed you are, thats the quitters way out. Be strong. Get help.
2007-01-18 00:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by The Sooz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from her. You are not her slave, and it sounds as if she has been rude to you for too long. Make new friends. You are young and shouldn't be forced into situations where you feel like slashing your wrists or ending your life!!! Tell an adult if this continues. You have a right not to be stressed out. Just be yourself, make new friends, and avoid her like the flu, and most important, don't hate yourself over this. You haven't done anything wrong. Don't punish yourself anymore.
2007-01-18 07:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get new friends. You do NOT have to do everything she says. It's better to be alone than have a master, because she sure isn't your friend.
2007-01-18 07:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you and don't no how to tell you, don't let people like that get to you just walk away...
2007-01-18 07:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it easy bro..
i bet if u go all HIP HOP
She be off ur bac
cos there just no way u can call hip hop gay!!!
i mean come on!!
Think bout it!
2007-01-18 07:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by man_nerss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋