If you live with your partner and have been with him/her for a while do you still get aroused by seeing him/her walking past wearing just nickers? My partner hasn't had the usual sexual reaction by seeing me half nacked for the past few weeks and is 2-3 times/week of making love (comparing the 4 times of before) a lack of desire? he said that it's normal.. I have been with him for 2 yrs and always feel a strong attraction towards him....never feel tired for a snuggle. He is training for the marathon @ the mom plus has lots of things in his head b/c is buying a house and working a lot...does this justify it?..what do you think?
2007-01-17 22:18:51 · 11 answers · asked by monjka l 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
SORRY THE MISSPELLING..I MEANT NAKED!!!!
2007-01-17 22:27:42 · update #1
James B..why don't you read the whole question instead of patronizing?...it says "I meant NAKED"....
2007-01-17 22:38:06 · update #2
Less training for the marathon should do it.
2007-01-17 22:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a normal relationship to be honest. I have been with my lady 8 years and now I get naked, stand in front of the tv, do the naked man dance (wiggle it about, etc)....... all i get is move out of the way I am watching Eastenders!! :)
Don't take it to heart, i am sure you are still very sexy to him, its just what time does to relationships. Worry if your sexlife totally dries up.
2007-01-17 22:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by mickeyleon123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds normal to me - buying house is very stressful. Things should pick up again after the marathon and when you've moved house.
Nacked = naked, I assume?
2007-01-17 22:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by anabelezenith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You expect a man to go "phadang" after having free access at whim for two years just because you walk by him naked. Go up and ask for it. He's not going to grab you and throw you on the bed everytime you tease him. Yes we get used to (and thankfully comfotable) with each others bodies after a while. If you think he's getting bored make it all more exciting.
2007-01-17 22:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by graliv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes i think its normal too,but i see why it worries you...
Maybe you should consider not walking half naked so often,maybe then when you do once in a while it will have effect you wish...Like this he got used to it and maybe he is not aware what you want by that ....
2007-01-17 22:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going totally "nacked" and see if that has the desired effect.
2007-01-17 22:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 or 3 three times a week. Now I know who is getting my share!!
2007-01-18 00:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never seen my partner "nacked"... what is it exactly?
2007-01-17 22:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you think its bad now, wait till your body changes after your first kid. you will definitely get paranoid about his reaction.
2007-01-17 22:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you become " half nacked?"
2007-01-17 22:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by James B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋