2007-01-17 21:51:31 · 11 answers · asked by mike s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you don't know after 6 yrs of marriage, then you haven't been paying attention !!! We can give you ideas, but every woman is different, so maybe you try one of our ideas and she HATES it. I suggest talking with your wife and asking her what she thinks could spice up your sex life. I promise she won't be offended and might actually like the interaction.
2007-01-17 21:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by Michele A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh you need magic mood dust....
wait there's no such thing.
This is like her needing to ask what can get you to be in the mood to do something you ought to always be in the mood to do.
I bet she doesn't worry about you being in the mood to go to work.
This is a bad sign... she is suppose to be in love with you right? If she is in love with you then that ought to put her in the mood right? I mean isn't that how love/sex works... you fall in love with someone, then this leads to the mood of wanting to be sexual with them? (Here's a test, have sex with someone else, and then see if she'll believe you still love only her.) Ha!
She's not in the mood because she's fell out of love with you... (and she has little libido for her own self). She thinks she needs to be in the mood before she can pleasure you... she is not a giver, she is not wanting to give you sex, she is waiting to be in the mood to receive sex from you... but first you have to perform to get her in the mood...
Bottom line, she is a poor lover, and is sexually inept. She is to sex what McDonald's is to gourmet eating. And she has you buffaloed into thinking its something you're not being or doing.
Go get the magic sex mood dust.
Before marriage you had to get lucky
After marriage you have to be deserving....
2007-01-18 08:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of waiting till bedtime to put her in the mood throughout the day tell her she's pretty or be romantic. We're not sex machines you have to want us for more than sex and I'm guessing most women get bored. I know I do.
2007-01-18 06:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your adorable..for asking this question it show how much you love yr wife.. every women is different so the best advise i can give you is.. its all about mental stimulation..........You almost at times have to be a mind reader and if you know your wife well just do something for her that you know shes like but will very rarely ask for, all say........ALL..........
go to the sex shop and buy a some toys and suprize her lol
2007-01-18 06:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by priscilla d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The knowledge that you still care for them as much as you cared when you were newly married, but this time for better reasons!
2007-01-18 05:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce toys! I love bondage...nothing to scary though lol rent naughty movies etc..make sure to tell her you love her everyday and say how pretty she is. Bring her flowers, rub her feet...small simple things work wonders
2007-01-18 05:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good massage my man, focusing all your attention to her pleasure...& dont do this to expect any in return! if this still dont work give her a couple of drinks!
2007-01-18 05:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by crisjul v 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell them they are like fine wine and they get better with age. it works all the time and makes them feel very sexy.
2007-01-18 05:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is impossible to find out.
2007-01-18 06:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send her to my house, man.
2007-01-18 05:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anthony R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋