2007-01-17 21:33:57 · 10 answers · asked by mukwathagicu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it is so why does she suspect u. Please ask her as to how she considers u to be unfaithful and then try to mend ur ways if so warranted.
2007-01-17 22:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women love to bully men and one of the ways we can do this is by accusing you of things we know you never did. She is bullying you to make you insecure. She doesn't love you very much or only loves you because she can belittle you and make you feel defensive all the time.
Tell her that if she thinks you are running around on her then she should pack her bags and leave. Make her little plan backfire and YOU take the upper hand in this. You are not cheating and are trying your best to make her feel good about the relationship but she is continually pulling you down. You have done what you can and now it is up to her.
I think she is hoping that however good things are for her right now, she can make it even better for herself by accusing you and acting bitchy.
Haven't you had enough of her bitchiness? Tell her that. Tell her, "GROW UP! SHUT UP! OR GET OUT!" Just because she is unjustifiably insecure doesn't mean that she has to make you that way too. I put a heavy hand on people who do this to me.
Don't keep trying to show love to someone who will never acknowledge it. You love her, either she can see it or she can't. Don't put up with the crap....don't forget to love yourself in all this confusion. Sure you love her but you have self dignity too.
I just read the other answers and they are all interesting. I'm not against kindness and communication but when you've done all that and she is still a snot, its time to call the shots. Its called TOUGH LOVE.
2007-01-17 21:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's the king of kings and a living legend … in his own mind. Unfortunately, he's got a hair trigger ego that fires off tantrums if his authority is unduly challenged. Cure: Listen to his self-centered rants and stories with interest, as they can be really fascinating. But don't get sucked up into the drama of arguing him down. You're probably right about whatever it is, but it's best for him to discover that on his own.
2016-05-24 02:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her insecurity must stem from somewhere. Not saying that you have caused it perhaps it from an ex or an abandonment issue from her child hood. You need to work on her self esteem, say and do things positive towards her. She too also needs to work on her self esteem or otherwise her continued doubt of you is going to drive you away. Make sure you make enough time for her it is quite easy to let other commitments get in the way of your relationship, it does not need to cost, just quality time together. If you have no luck then go to joint counsel ling together, it may seem that the problem is more hers but really the responsibility of your marriage belongs to both of you. Good luck
2007-01-17 21:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When your free to do so, call her.
Do things in the house together, or to help her.
She will like that. Spend more of your free time
with her. Walks, movies, dinner, TV, just talking.
Leave cards and notes around telling her how much
you love her. Buy her things. A nightie, perfume,
something she might like.
2007-01-17 21:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spend lots of time with her, Be available to her 24/7 if even by phone, show her She is the most important thing to you in your life.
The best gift you can give her is time.
2007-01-17 21:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe your giving her reasons to beleave that you are,or maybe in the pass you have ,your not telling us the whole story here......theres always two sides of the story..but if your not then what are you doing thats taking the place of your wife time with her?,,,,,maybe that is where the problem is. but you would only know that .
2007-01-21 20:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by nobodyspeical00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has no grounds to suspect you of cheating then she may just be insecure. In that case you have your work cut out for you.
2007-01-17 21:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
stop cheating on her then. Tell her she is pretty several times a day, say you love her all the time, buy her flowers & rub her feet. and stop seeing your girlfriend
2007-01-17 22:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife has a problem. Get her to go for counseling.
2007-01-17 22:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by starflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋