My husband and I have been together 11 years(9 married) with 2 children 4 and 6. What I want to know is it common to still want to have sex 3-4 times a week if not more? In fact I would say it's way more and way better than when we first met. It's just that most of our friends whinge on about the opposite that I'm starting to think we're freaks. I think maybe we both have high sex drives and lucked out in partners, is that it maybe? Hands up who's still at it!
2007-01-17 21:24:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We're still at it after 36 yrs. of marriage (one child), although at this point we normally have one good, hot sex session a week and we both enjoy solosex in between.
When we first got married it was several times a week and we still soloed.
Don't recall our frequency at the 11 yr. mark, but I'm betting it was a couple times a week.
2007-01-18 00:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him what you like, if you don't know get some erotica books and find out. Watch porn together, point out what you like. You have to be comfortable telling him how you feel. (not the roll of quarter thing). But the no passion thing. I've been with my husband for 11 years also. I was his first and it has taken a lot of training but well worth it. How about oral? Or a super nice(bigger) toy and some oral? Just get yourself a nice toy and have a good time with or without him.
2016-05-24 02:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lucked out!! Isn't it nice? It is rare that couples are still doing it 3-4 plus times aweek after 11 years.
2007-01-17 21:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fabulous that you're still at it! I can't imagine not doing it 3 or 4 times a week, at least! Lol! You, my dear, are one lucky (and obviously happy) woman! And you should be happy. Sounds like your friends, well, aren't happy. Don't let them and their lack of ability or willingness in their love lives hinder yours. You're not a freak for enjoying your husband that much. And I think it's great that you want him to be just as happy as he makes you. You rock, sister! And congrats on the great family! :)
2007-01-17 21:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by alysion 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be models for every loving marital relationship the world over! I don't see a problem at all. I see that you both deeply love one another, love each other physically, have a mature relationship, actually a gifted one. Don't change a thing, and don't judge yourself with other couples. You guys are awesome. My hand is up!
2007-01-17 21:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is wonderful! My opinion is that the two of you obviously share more than sex this is LOVE! Many people don't experience both of these incredible feelings with the same person so count yourselves lucky and keep on being freaks!!!!!!
2007-01-17 21:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mysticalmama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is wonderful that the two of you are still attracted to each other after 11 yrs. Go for what you know, and just enjoy it.
2007-01-17 21:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is everything wrong to it. u are suppose to be tired of each other to guts and that u r suppposed to be with some other guy like me. shiet let me get a time machine and go back in time to meet u b4 ur so call 11 years of great sex husband do. my ex-wife was tired of sex after 1 year and i tried everything with her.
2007-01-17 21:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by san s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u r happy with ur sex life why have nagging doubts based on others woes.
2007-01-17 22:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound perfectly normal to me. My husband and I have been married for 12 years and it just gets better. :-D
My opinion, it's healthy and right to still want it.
2007-01-17 21:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by Niki L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋