we are so close and very intimacy, i feel pain in heart, everybody is saying giveup. i cant. she cant and she have a baby and a family. I dont asking wat to do? I am only asking do u can feel me??
2007-01-17 21:23:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hang in there ...life has a way of working itself out ...have faith ...if u r ment to be , then u will be! Don't listen to these people who say she'll cheat on u and beware a cheater always a cheater . If its love it will find a way...........Only the 2 of you know whats in your hearts thats why its special............Doesnt mean its right but maybe someday it will be , Good luck....
2007-01-18 03:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be real careful here. Chances are she is not really truly in love with you per se. Shes in love with the ability to leave a stressful married life for even a little bit when she is with you. Cause if she really loved you,there would be no question that she would leave her family for you. Unfortunately, you have fallen in love with her and because of her married committment cant be with you. In other words shes using you for her own gain. Nothing good will ever come out of this otherwise it would have already. As hard as it will be,time has come to end this and move on and find someone else who is more available, youll be better off. Good luck
2007-01-17 21:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I can't be on your side in this case. Bottom line is leave married couples alone. You're just asking for heartbreak. If she initiates a divorce with her husband, then maybe you would have a chance. Remember she has a baby. Are you ready to become the baby's stepfather? The baby needs a stable family life to be raised in. If you're not ready to be fully responsible for that, above and beyond your relationship with this married lady, then give it up. Find someone who is single, like yourself.
2007-01-17 21:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out while your still walking! This is the type of stuff that ends up on the news and papers. You need to end this because it will go no where and get only worst for all. IF you have too, and are capable of it, think of those little kids she has and ask her to show you pictures of the child that you will be harming by staying with her.
Leave.
2007-01-17 21:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by yawhosucs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave your booty call alone she married and have a kid what wrong with you or do you all live in a trailer park next you say you doing the famliy pet if this was my wife you would be feel a pain in your chest from a. 357 keep it up i read about you in the new paper
2007-01-17 21:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you have an *open* relationship. She stays with her hubby, you stay with your wife, but you continue to see each other!
Talk to your spouses and see how it works out. Get it all out in the open, and don't hide your love anymore.
What ever happened to having an open realtionship and free love?
Good Luck!
2007-01-17 21:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why r u coming in her way of having a settled life with her husband?
2007-01-17 22:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is with her husband and not u, it may be very painful for u indeed, but if she wanted to be with u she would be. we can't change things, she seems to have chosen to be with him for now. while u are wasting your life, waiting in hopes she will choose u. if it were me, i would not sit around and wait on something that may never be, and waste my life on someone who did not want to be with me, just frustrates u and hurts u to be stuck in a relationship like this one. need to face reality, and accept it.
2007-01-18 00:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well turn it off with the other guy then and then how about you step into the picture. and hopefully the poolman doesnt take the job you have now with her
2007-01-17 21:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet she was saying the same thing to her hubby b4 she found u. lol. and i bet she still do.. so ur her booty call get it buddy. use her like she's using u and enjoy while it lasted.
2007-01-17 21:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by san s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋