I have was seeing a gemini guy 28 on an off for half a year, but he wasn't in the frame of mind for a relationship at this moment in time. The thing is from day 1 we were like soulmates, got on very well intellectually and always had so much fun. But he really doesn't want anything serious right now at this point in time, I have tried to move on several occasions but he always comes back saying that he misses me, he misses my company, someone to talk to and liaise with, and even says that I am perfect for him but he still dosen't want a relationship right now, but likes me alot. So I have decided to move on for good, how and why would he let me move on if we gel so well like he says? how do I get him to miss me and want me back. I need to know what would attract a Gemini to making you want an ex or someone back? situations that you have been in and wanted someone back, I know that I can move on, but I still want to know what I could do?
2007-01-17 20:31:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Gemini's are shallow, talkative people and he will be with you till his curosity is satisfied and then his attention goes elsewhere. Gemini's want continually change, If you can rise to the challenge and are willing to change continually, you can keep the interest of the gemini boy. It would be very tiring and tedious exercise.
2007-01-17 20:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Gemini and I have played this same scenario with people. This is just a game to him, he knows your there and convenient. If you want him to come looking for you, the best thing to do is ignore him. He won't like it that your moving on and happy... But then again what he most likely Loves the most- is a challenge, so he will probably find someone to make you jealous. So he can sit back and enjoy how much he is making you crazy!!! Next thing you know, your in a mental house with padded white walls and straight jacket. Where is he? Playing the same game with another victim. Basically, it comes down to the fact that emotionally Gemini's men or women are never ready for a relationship. We can say we are, even make people believe that we are. The truth is we will always be looking for something/someone new and exciting!
Give up- move on, or get fitted for that straight jacket!
2007-01-18 04:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by IAMGODD 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Weeeeeell I know the answer sweetie but please don't get cranky with me................. My husband is a Gemini and the answer to your question is pretty short and sweet. Gemini's are attracted to beautifull things, so you're probably a really pretty girl. They love being surrounded by beauty. You say he keeps coming back cos he misses his soul mate and the connection you both have. That could only mean one thing. Perhaps you have let your appearance slide a bit since you first met. Please don't be offended. A gemini man is pretty much like a 2 yr old little boy, even though he'd never admit it. You know, doesn't get his way in a situation so storms off, you can just picture them stamping their feet up and down yelling for mummy!!!! Hope I helped a bit.......... Cheers.................. P.S. He loves you too much to ever admit how shallow these reasons might appear but don't take it to heart, just do what you have to do. Whatever you decide will be right, depends how much energy you guys have together I guess.
2016-03-16 22:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Mom is a Gemini, my two best friends.....GEMINI's. I cannot escape these people! I have been engaged five times and of the five, four were Gemini's. I was the person who ended the relationship all five times, in case you were wondering.
Three of the four Gemini's were actually fairly challenging for me to "get". They resisted the "serious relationship" stubbornly. Once I did "get" them, however, they remained hooked, and I mean HOOKED!
The biggest turn-off for a Gemini man is a woman who revolves her life around HIM. I made that mistake in my first relationship but once he told me he "loved me, but didn't feel as though he was IN love with me anymore", I decided I was moving out the following week. Upon hearing the news of my departure, he magically began to have second thoughts. Amazing!
Can I just warn you if you manage to completely capture the heart of a Gemini and you decide to end the relationship, you'll likely find yourself in court requesting a restraining order? Okay, consider yourself warned!
I do not have to "try" to be what the Gemini guy wants, it's inherent in my personality. I have a successful career, a good sense of humor, I'm a good cook, very sexual/sensual, EXTREMELY INDEPENDENT, don't care if plans change, don't mind if he goes out with the guys (because it passes as soon as he realizes that means I just go out with the girls, he looks at me in all my hotness and decides a movie at home with me sounds more fun), I'm mysterious, unpredictable, witty and smart! Oh, and did I mention MODEST??!? Lol.
If this describes you, then DO YOUR OWN THING, girl and don't let him lead you around on that leash he has you attached to. As soon as he realizes that you REALLY aren't going to be at his beck and call anymore, he'll be back. Only chances are, you won't want him anymore.
Best of luck to you. Not to be too cliche', but really.......just follow your heart.....your instincts should be your guide.
Kelly
2007-01-17 22:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by kellysumthin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-01 01:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by sheryl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good answer Kellysumt...........Gemini's are always curious,talkative and two minded people. I don't think they are very shallow, though they could do anything to achieve what they want and will tell you what you like to hear.They will get bored very fast and will move on to another task without completing the previous. Love life they are good lovers, generous,caring and very sensitive.
2007-01-17 23:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by Vaas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jUST GIVE IT SOME TIME AND THEN MESSAGE HIM,JUST TO KNOW IF HE'S OK...i BET HE WOULD HAVE ALREADY CHANGED HIS MIND BY THEN,AND WILL FIND AN EXCUSE TO COME BACK TO YOU....BELIEVE ME,I M A GEMINI,AND I'VE BEEN THROUGH THIS MANY TIMES
2007-01-18 00:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men respond to NO CONTACT !!! All men no matter what sign they are. Men are Hunters by nature. Do not call or be around. He will go into hunting mode, and want to hunt for his prey, YOU !!!
2007-01-18 02:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by hefnergang 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋