Lately my bf of a year and five months has been having temper outbursts and throwing things and getting really mad at me for stupid reasons.Tonight he also started "digging into me" about my weight I am on the heavy side and he tells me that he's "into girls that are more healthy" but he does say that he does see a future with me and he's staying and just having a bad week but I just feel like I'm on "eggshells" so as not to anger him.He gets mad at me when I want to know where are relationship stands and tells me he's tired of my questions. I love him dearly and want us to have a future but he's seeming to become more and more distant and hurtful. I don't want to watch his anger grow and I don't want to see our relationship crash and burn but I can't deny my inner pain. I also don't want to hold him back and make him stay in a relationship he doesn't want to be in. when I tell him that he says "well I'm here aren't I?" call me paranoid but is wanting reassurance such a bad thing?
2007-01-17 20:17:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If u love him dearly why do u want to get an assurance of love from him. Stop nagging him. if u r really over weight shed some weight.
Eat nourishing food with plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables being part of it. Chew each morsel at least 32 times. This will activate signal to the brain as soon as u have had enough. Besides this change in eating style, take regular light exercises and brisk walks every day. U will be able to gain/shed all extra weight gracefully and in a reasonable time span. No food or drink in between the food and not more than three meals a day, unless u r diabetic.
2007-01-17 21:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love is dying. He is starting to feel he can do better. If you are heavy and he says he is into more fit girls he will never be happy with you. He still has feelings for you, which is why he is still there, but the feelings aren't as strong and will continue to fade unless you start to get in shape and stay in shape.
2007-01-18 04:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you from experience it does not get any better only worse. End this relationship now and find someone that will value as a person, someone that will love you from the inside out. Someone that will certainly not put you down. Good luck
2007-01-18 06:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound like a prick but here I go. Lose the wait. I don't care how cool you are know buddy really likes having sex with fat girls or looking at them. The other thing is if he is violent, he will always be, even if he starts working on it today we are talking years before he acts different. He didn't learn his behaviors over night and he is not going to change them over night either. Trust me.
2007-01-18 04:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sheb Schebella 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to lose the as*****! My man gets upset but he doesn't throw things, yell @ me, tell me I'm fat and then be nice and want to spend the rest of his life with me! He has respect for me and that is what you don't have with your man! GET SOME!
2007-01-18 04:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he is probably got someone else he is interested in and taking it out on you, trying to find fault to justify himself..Don't let him do this to you..tell him to either straighten up or you are out of there...stand by and watch he is up to no good...
2007-01-18 04:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are into guys with better temper control.
2007-01-18 05:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Nats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like he's trying to destroy your self esteem and get control over you. You can do better than this JERK....really.
2007-01-18 04:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he si being really cold with you.here an advice...get cold also ....dont ask him any question,do the same .
2007-01-18 04:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋