of keeping her from school now till they sort it out but not sure wot to do
2007-01-17 19:36:09 · 35 answers · asked by ? 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yes, get her out of that school! She needs to be able to attend school somewhere that she can feel safe. It is not fair for her to have to go somewhere that she is going to be picked on and possibly hurt.
2007-01-17 19:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about your daughter being bullied at school, but 4 years. Its time for you to tkae some positive action first see the headmistress/master and inform them if nothing is done u will talk with the School Govenors, if no solution is found then i suggest u go to the Local Education Authorities and demand some action. This is unexceptable and of course ur daughter now will be upset because no one is taking action. Self harm is a cry for help. I suggest u wait no longer and imediate demand this problem is erased. The boys from school who are bullying should be excluded in this day and age no one has the right to bully anyone. for ur daughters sake start banging some doors and get some positive results. I sincerely wish u luck but please dont allow this to go on any longer. Best of luck and God Bless ur daughter
2007-01-20 11:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mary l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off have her take a martial art. Or ask a cop to show your daughter some basics.
Next if she is assaulted by the bully to simply walk up to a pay phone & call the police. If it happens on the bus then the second she gets off the bus she goes to a payphone & reports it.
Request 911 contact you immediatly. She then waits at the office for the cops.
Have her call home if she can as well. then wait for you to arrivve at school.
Once you both are there file a police report & have her state she wants to prrosicute the bully for assault. the School trys to stop this or prevent her from filing a police report have her state this in the report as well. If need be request to file charges against the school official who made any threats as this is illegal to intimidate a witness or victim.
Now what if it's verbal? Contact an atty & have them contact the school. Heve themn inform the school they are required to protect your child & falure to do so WILL result in legal action the district can NOT afford.
2007-01-18 11:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Reb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will mimic what I read in a letter to the editor. Contact a lawyer. Have the lawyer write the school principal, the local board and the parents. In the letter you should clearly state that if it continues you will sue all involved. Your child is entitled to a safe learning environment. The letter writer stated that the people that were bullying his child were removed from school as soon as the school received the letter. Hopefully the parents of the bully will be inconvenienced by possibly having to stay at home from work to remedy this problem. Now that is what I would call justice!
2007-01-18 03:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by michelle g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four Years - What does your daughter want, does she want to change schools???
Talk to the school and get to the bottom of this bulling behaviour. Your daughter is obviousally very upset by all of this and self harm is a huge cry for help. Do not let this go on any longer, seek support from your local gp who will put you in touch with the right people.
2007-01-20 21:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by jdlover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter was bullied for a long time but never reached the stage of self harm.First you need to talk to the school teachers and principal.Their parents need to know what they are doing to another child.If the school does not listen and they do not act appropiately then tell the school you will be informing the police and laying charges.As for your daughter not attending school you are letting the bullies win so try to encourage your daughter no matter how hard it is to go to school and hold her head up high.Your daughter also could do with counselling.Pease feel free to email me.
2007-01-17 21:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak with your daughter and tell her of your concerns, obviously she has made you aware of this situation and 4 years is 3 years 9 months too long, time to take it to the authorities, let it be the school or the law. With the way kids are acting now a days, please do not sleep on this. Thank God it is has not been physical and I am sure it has had a huge effect on your daughter psychologically. This is the time for intervention, not tomorrow, nor the next day, today, please, before someone gets hurt.
2007-01-17 20:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't there a law in you country where you are allowed to call the police?It is harassment. I have read somewhere that some teenagers who are bullied kill themselves. Tell your daughter to stand up to them! At the end of the day they have no right in making people feel small. She would not only be standing up for herself, must for justice!
Try telling at teacher at school. Maybe you could take her to self defence classes such as Karate. The main goal however is to make your daughter feel safe, wanted and make her realise that life is harsh but its overcoming these obstacles that that makes us better people!
2007-01-17 20:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Husain F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to these kids parents asap. If the school does not do anything about it, have her change schools and then go to the school board about it and complain. If that does not work call your local news Chanel and tell them about the problem. They will broadcast it and then the school WILL have to do something. You honestly should have done something sooner instead of putting her through hell. This WILL affect her for years to come. Take her to see a counselor to help her deal with this. This needs to be fixed asap. Those boys may take it to the next level
2007-01-17 20:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, definitely get her into counseling if you think she's hurting herself. Keeping her out of school for a couple days probably wouldn't hurt anything, but any longer than that could leave her behind in school (not to mention make it alot harder for her to go back). Call and talk to the principal, vice principal, whoever handles these types of situations, and let them know that this isn't acceptable to you. Stay calm, and just try to let them know what has happened, and what you'd like to see happen to resolve it. If you keep right on top of it, they should resolve it fairly quickly (they get sick of hearing from you, lol). Maybe look into switching schools if you cant work something out with her current one.
2007-01-17 19:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by Nev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a problem with my son a few years ago when he was 4 in pre -school 10 kids in the class were all bullied by the same young girl her mummy was brain dead so no point going there the school had`nt a clue how to handle it i would say see the principal 1st if your not happy with his response go over his head to board of management ask what bullying policy the school has in place if your still not happy go to the police michlle Gs answer looks good
2007-01-18 11:27:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋