my fiance s ex wife is being really nice to him buying him medicine for him because he was sick,going out of her way to be nice to him...they have kids together he has custody of them and im worried they hate each other so they tell me but someone told me she is probably being nice to him so that he will let her have the kids with her more. he has told me he hates her b/c she brain washes the kids and the way she abused him during their marrige??? so whats up with this???? plus she has a fiance....
2007-01-17 16:59:12 · 7 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Could be that she is looking to get custody of the children and she is buttering him up. Or she still has feelings for him_
2007-01-17 17:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are like that. Some men too.
Either she does it b/c she is wanting to get on his good side for the kid's or she's doing it b/c she has feelings for him.. And in that case, she is wrong to act on her feelings. He is your fiance and she has one herself.
Oh, and because my husband's ex wife was this way, she might be doing it just to make you jealous. My husband's ex knew he wanted nothing to do with her. She repulses him and she knows that. But she'd still send him love letters and ask him if he wanted to have some no strings attached sex. She only did it to irritate me because she knew he was thru with her.
If she's like that at all, it could definitely be to irritate you and if so, she probably won't change.
2007-01-18 02:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by myoctoberblues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance has an ex wife whom he had children with. There will ALWAYS be contact between the two of them. They may have decided to bury their differences because of the chldren. My ex and I don't even LIKE each other yet we have always been tolerant of one another because we have a daughter. When you are an adult you learn that sometimes you have to deal DECENTLY with people you don't even like because it is the mature thing to do. What's up with it is that your fiance and his ex wife are being grown ups.
2007-01-18 03:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sounds like she could be trying to butter him up. but your fiance seems to have a good head on his shoulders and see's right through her. so thats a good thing he isnt' falling for her antics.
I think you will be okay since your fiance has her pegged. let her play her little game he's not niave and he's into her games.
2007-01-18 04:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time u buy the medicine, she creeped into your spot, watch it us women are sneaky snakes
2007-01-18 01:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by slyshaunamichelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were once a couple, part of a family. She prob. still has 'family' feelings for him. That's my guess.
2007-01-18 01:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's buttering him up for something. tell him to keep his guard up.
2007-01-18 01:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by living_dead_sandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋