I feel Love is Great...Its Awesome becaus it is Natural...
2007-01-17 16:51:05 · 15 answers · asked by vishnuindian_onfire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I THINK ITS THE OTHER WAY ROUND.
2007-01-17 17:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think that Love marriage is better than arranged in most of the cases. In our region like India and Pakistan, I have seen many cases which were happy after arranged marriage but many not happy after love marriage but it doesnt matter, the real thing that matters is Love and understanding after marriage b/c understanding and caring is the main essense of this relationship. I hope this figures......morpheous143@yahoo.co.uk
2007-01-17 17:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by morpheous143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say... as far as I know about arranged marriages, the family is usually the one to pick the person you are to marry right? Who knows you better than your family? They do have your best interests at heart, so it could be a good thing...
A marriage to a person you choose, (I think) is rarely run by the family first, to see if they agree..you marry this person because you want to not because your family wants you to.
I can't say that one is better than the other.
2007-01-17 16:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by michellecdnd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither is better than the other. Because it does not matter how your getting married. It makes no difference in 21st century.
"Learn to love without lust" Mahatma Gandhi,
"Love everyone like your child" Dalai Lama.
Off course you know the choice is yours and you alone face the consequences for the choices you make.
You will be influenced by lover, friend, relative, neighbours and even strangers but end of the day choice is yours. You make the choice and you face the consequences.
2007-01-17 19:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a love marriage is much better than arranged... In a love marriage you choose who you marry and it is not chosen for you.
It is natural to fall and love and marry but it is not natural for arranged marriages.
2007-01-17 16:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to think it is better for you to have a choice then to have one thrust upon you, but know of many happily married people whose marriages were arranged by their families.
2007-01-17 16:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love or arrenge marriage
both r better 2 people should have understanding between each other n should love n respect each others feeling only then marriage last for long
god bless u
2007-01-17 19:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by shabana o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
arranged marriage is better
2007-01-17 17:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Johnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love marriage or love marriage..... if you are sure you can love the other person and the other one can love you, just proceed.
2007-01-18 19:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Raj Narayan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r stable in your life,if u r full of confidence than love marrige is good,but it should be with the permission of parents,but in india arrange marrige is always successfull.
2007-01-17 16:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously they better only when their opionions match & they can be understandable with each other. otherwise arranged marraiges only better.
2007-01-17 17:59:25 · answer #11 · answered by vara l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋