people does'nt talk to me just because i am not beautiful,but i want to know, that are only beautiful people have the the capabilities to make other stick to them.what should i do to make people my friends?they don't even talk to me.
2007-01-17 16:44:33 · 21 answers · asked by pooja p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
DO NOT THINK YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE NOT BEAUTIFUL FIRST. TALK THE PEOPLE WHO TALK WITH YOU NEVER RUN BEHIND THE PEOPLE WHO AVOID YOU.
2007-01-25 16:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Pooja.
I don't think being beautiful or not, plays any role in friendship. May be in love or marriage people might see the external beauty.
I think what you should do is:
Be truthful to your character, don't do anything for the sake of doing; try to help your friends in case if they need your help or when they have any difficulty; try to help them without expecting anything, this will create a good impression about you. Also, don't talk ill about anybody.
2007-01-17 16:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you have misunderstood the people around you.people must be avoiding you for some other reason which you do not realise.so talk to some close friend they can give you the best suggestion to improve you appearance and way of interacting.always remember there are some things about us which only others can tell us.and people will also avoid good looking people if they have behavioural problem,i suggest you to change your hair style and way you dress,you will see the difference soon.
2007-01-23 22:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is not a crieteria in judging friends. You could be the most ugly looking person but your good nature can change the whole uglyness.I value people not by the looks but by how you are. Contact me if you want to be a true friend who does not care for looks.anand_e_j@yahoomail.co.in
2007-01-23 17:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by anand_e_j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Pooja
Don't fret. Those who makes fren with other based on thier look or status are not worth being frens with. You can talk with your school or office mates. Go out with them and meet thier frens. U can also come online and make e-frens. If u like someone to be your fren approach them, the most they can say is no. Don't give up ok. Have confidence in yrself
2007-01-17 20:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't talk to you because your not beautiful? First thing to remember is that there are no truly ugly people, except for prehaps the people whoa ren't talking to you becasue of your looks.
Do you have a hobby or intrest? I am assuming your in school, if so there are probably clubs you can join. right off the bat, you now have something in common with that group of people who you can now talk with about that intrest. No club? start one.
Kinda know someone you would like to get to know better? one thing to keep in mind is people LOVE to talk about themselves, so ask them about themselves. LISTEN and ask questions. In their talking about themselves there is a good chance they will talk about something you are interested in, which you can comment on, and thus a conversation is born.
TALK TO STRANGERS, in a safe setting of course. When I first when to my local college, I hardly knew anyone. what did I do? talk to random people in the cafateria and in classes. Sure enough, I started making new friends. One of those friends hooked me up with my GF of now almost 2 years. I admit, I didn't make friends with everyone I randomly introduced myself to, but talk to enough people and it will eventually work.
So be BOLD, take the initiative! Soon you will have at least a small group of people to talk to.
2007-01-17 17:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by Pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi pooja,
The easiest way to be interesting is to talk funny. Try to make humour about the things come around you. Being a girl it is easy for u to talk to boys..make sure u do not sound too boring try to talk what they want u to talk don't be shy in this modern India. One thing don't be afraid of saying any thing say what ever u want to say.
I hope this will work
2007-01-17 17:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by r_jain187 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be interesting it is not at all necessary that you should talk. It is more interesting that you should listen. Try to be a good listener and speak only when you think that others want an answer. Once a person visited Napoleon. Napoleon did not even get up to greet him. When that person left Napoleon came to see him off up to the gate. At gate the person asked Napoleon why did you come to see me off up to the gate whereas you did not get up to greet me. Napoleon answered, welcome is given according to look whereas farewell is given according to virtues. People may not like you on welcome but they will definite like you at the farewell and in the next step whole world will be yours.
Badheo
2007-01-24 01:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by badheo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi pooja u know what outward appearence is not beauty its ur heart that's beautiful, never be bad to anyone,always try to help others who r in need and u'll make friends right at that moment "a friend in need is a friend indeed" if u want i can b ur friend just mail me on minimelo_7(yahoo).
2007-01-25 01:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt talk in a monotony..u need to work upon your body language and
comunication skills preferably fluent english..i think dats d best turn on fr indians. apart frm al dis u need to add humour in ur talk and b more witty.... and u carry a misconception dat ppl get attracted towards beauty...its nothing like dat..beauty is something ppl get attracted fr d frst time bt later on its ur personality and ur attitude dat makes d oder person stick to u!
2007-01-17 16:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by soorya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you really want to be friends with people who at this day and age cannot accept someone for who they are. Do you accept yourself, do you find yourself funny and smart. Do you like those people who do find the time to talk to you.
2007-01-24 03:10:51 · answer #11 · answered by mllttsmn2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋