Why not just say you're masterbating...Who freakin cares if you do or not everyone does it behind closed doors! My husband "accidently" left his "towel" on the bed and was like "oh i picked it up w/ my blanket by accident". And of all things the scent was still fresh! It erks me when he won't be honest w/ me! Does anyone else have this problem??
2007-01-17 14:46:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
men lie about a lot of things, not just masturbating
2007-01-17 14:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, most women take it personal when a man masturbate, like it means something is wrong with her. But if women could understand that men actually think about 7 - 10 times every minute then they would know why they master bate.
If you have an open and honest relationship with your husband, then he wouldn't lie. My husband doesn't lie about it! But, we talk about everything, we have great communication. However, it's important that women understand that the communication has to start with something simple, and not just jump right into quizzing him about masturbation . . . . if he can't trust you, he will not tell you.
AND PLEASE, don't badger him about it, and don't b**** when he does tell you the truth.
2007-01-17 15:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do and some don't. Personally I think its very sexy. Youre irritated because it doesn't involve you when he does it and you may wonder what he thinks about. Maybe, you can try being more spontaneous about sexual things and surprise him once in awhile. Or if you guy are in bed together, ask him to do it infront of you because youre curious about it. That will make it more interesting for you and him and that way, you will become a part of his private time.
2007-01-17 14:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I don't live with my boyfriend, so I don't have any situations like this. However if and when we do live together, I really couldn't care less if he masterbates as long as I'm still getting what I want and need in bed. Plus, I really doubt that he would lie to me about it.
2007-01-17 14:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As they say, only 60% of the people in the world admit to masturbating. The other 40% are just lying!!
Now, when I was married, we didn't talk about it really. But, I am sure she knew it happened.
But, it doesn't mean he isn't satified by you, like the earlier answer said. Sometimes you just feel like it. Like the gentleman said, if she isn't in the mood, you have to take matters into your own hands(and, yes, the pun was intended.).
2007-01-17 15:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman masterbating men yeah thats fine but when a man does it over like a magazine i think thats wrongg
2016-05-24 02:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have not had this problem with my husband. I don't ask, he doesn't say. But I have run into the towel situation on occasion and he just says "Sorry."
2007-01-17 14:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not lie about it. If she says she is not in the mood, I go and take care of it. I will even ask her for a cigarette when I am done.
2007-01-17 14:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the wife has not shown interest in the past in helping out, then it's none of her business. No need to confess to your wife. She's not your priest. But, if you tell her, she will accept is as your confession.
2007-01-17 16:52:22 · answer #9 · answered by Big Mouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think men or women should lie about it. It is perfectly normal to masturbate and most people do it whether they choose to admit it or not.
2007-01-17 14:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about it. If he is yanking it, I would be alittle more concerned as to why you are not satisfying him. Stop the blame game and start looking in the mirror at the possible problem
2007-01-17 14:53:16 · answer #11 · answered by tbird 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋