Okay you know what before I ask this I know this is stupid and petty ok and I wish i never got involved with any of it. But anyway an acquaintance blocked me from their myspace and I'm worried they hate me. But I don't see why or why that would make any sense. This person has no problem sitting next to me in class and is nice to me when we talk, which I don't talk much. But I don;t know. I don't know the kid well, but some of the other people they block they don;t like. And they are pretty exclusive about friends, only if they consider you cool. And I definetly can see why they wouldn't consider me cool and I;m shy and basically have no self confidence so maybe they don't respect me. But I see no reason why they would hate me, they are pretty accepting of me and nice to me. Still I don't know now that I know its kind of awkward. And I worry because I am trying to get to be friends with some of this persons friends and they all like me and I don't think this person hates me but i don't want that to keep me from being friends with them.
2007-01-17 14:46:04 · 11 answers · asked by leena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well actually it is facebook. and if they block you you can;'t find them or send friend request.
2007-01-17 14:51:37 · update #1
i dont think it could have been a mistake.
2007-01-17 14:52:12 · update #2
Maybe they block everybody and only unblock those who ask. ASK him. If he gives you a lame answer, forget about him.
2007-01-17 14:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by John L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what baby, you shouldn't have to work this hard to have friends. If people don't like you for the great person that you are then forget them! If they don't consider you cool it's not because you're not cool. It's because they are too blind or dumb or both to see it.
This person blocked you from some web site. Doesn't that tell you something? If this person was interested in being your friend they wouldn't have done something like that. A real friend would welcome you and be glad to hear from you.
I wouldn't bother trying to be friends with these people. They sound like people who skin and grin in your face and tear you down and rip you apart when your back is turned.
I think you deserve better than that. Find people you have more in common with. Make friends with people who like you for you. You are someone worth knowing and don't feel that you don't have anything to offer. You're just as good, as anyone else and you deserve to have friends who would love to get to know you better. Good luck
2007-01-17 23:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring it up casually, like "Did your myspace get deleted? You aren't in my friends list anymore." If this person is such a jerk that he or she decided you weren't good enough to be a myspace friend, then I say laugh in the person's face for being lame because myspace is kind of lame. All the cool kids are using facebook these days.
2007-01-17 22:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your lack of self confidence is getting to you. It was probably a mistake and you don't really have to worry about it if its just an aquaintance anyway. If they're nice to u @ school then I don't think they HATE you. Like I said, probably a mistake. Good luck!
2007-01-17 22:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are dumb. read everything that you just wrote, and then ask yourself why no body likes you. nobody wants to hear about this. i can't believe how people get over myspace because they didn't get approved as a friend, or some stupid crap. get over it already. choose some new people to hang out with. not everyone is going to like you so get over it.
2007-01-17 22:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Zebracakes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if your that worried about it, then talk to them about it like,"Hey have you been on myspace lately?". Then say," I noticed your not on my friends list...do you mind if you add me?" If your to shy about it, then forget it and move on.
2007-01-17 22:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about that. You can't change their mind anyway. It's a minor issue---Move on----Upward and onward to better things an better people.
2007-01-17 22:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Dumb Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! thats a long question! uhh, why don't you just ask them in person if you see them at school?
2007-01-17 22:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by phobosaffear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dont worry about it just go on living its to petty
2007-01-18 18:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't, but you could always just ask them why
2007-01-17 22:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋