me and my gf haven't been able to have "good" sex in awhile due to our living situation. She hasn't even been able to sneek of and take care of things herself, if ya know what i mean... so she's been grumpy. So I told her we need to get rid the kids for a night and do some serious F-ing...She didnt believe that has anything to do with her "sour" moods lately. So what do ya think, ladies...Do you get grumpy if ya go a long time without good sex???
2007-01-17 14:19:14 · 26 answers · asked by donnie b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as to you b#tches who are insulting me... here is our situation...we had a fire at our house and have to live in a 1 bedroom/1 bathroom apartment until the house is fixed...thats with 3 kids all 5 or under...and yes "good" sex means she gets hers too..but with the lack of privacy we have only managed 2 quickies in the last month..so its not about me getting mine..i can take care of that myself..but the kids don't even let her goto the bathroom. And I have offered to watch the kids all the time..but she wont let me saying it's her responsibility (her kids not mine) and I work 11 hour days and drive an hour and a half to and from work 5 days a week. Plus she doesn't have any friends to go out with..or so she claims (seperate ??... why do so many women only have guy friends??)
2007-01-17 15:00:37 · update #1
Actually yes I do get grumpy when I haven't had good sex in awhile. Maybe she doesn't want to admit it, but women like sex just as much as men do, if not more so.
2007-01-17 14:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Donnie B,
Having a good roll in the hay isn't the answer to 'grumpy' issues every time.
1. Maybe she could use some help moving from one level of parenting to the next.
2. Are you being attentive to her possibly changing needs?
3. How close do you live to her in-laws?
4. Is there a bunch of repairs which are long overdue?
~On the other hand she just might need some tlc...
2007-01-17 14:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i get grumpy after a while. Then again if you're thinking you need to get rid of the kids for a little while, just to do that, you probably need more than just sex, you need time together. Plan a dinner, movie, and yeah... that too! Make a night out of it! Good luck and have fun with it, be creative!
2007-01-17 14:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 14 years and coincidentally I've been grumpy the last 14 years.. lol ...
Not being able to do what you want when you want it, and having to deal with kids can get you in a grumpy mood also..
but yea... bad sex ( in my case ) or the lack of it can get you in a bad mood..
2007-01-17 14:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If women are having sex on a regular basis and it stops abruptly that can definitely happen. Believe it or not there is a certain amount of serotonin is found in semen. That is a chemical in the brain that makes you feel happy. Anyway when that extra little boost is taken away then of course your going to feel. Just a little FYI. Good luck.
2007-01-17 16:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by mccmb02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I guess maybe we do. I wonder if it is more than just the sex. Maybe its the fact of just being alone with our partner. And of course you know that will happen but also there is no worry of kids.Maybe if you suggested getting rid of the kids and going out to eat and a couple of coctails then the serious f--king would be better. I know that if my kid leaves and he wants to jump right into that it kind of turns me off. He says stuff like you. Try a little romancing to intice her . But DON'T mention it.
2007-01-17 14:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get very grumpy if I have to go without sex longer than a week.
Lately, it's been going 3-4 weeks at a time without it. So, admittedly im quite a btch to live with
2007-01-17 14:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by txharleygirl1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!!! You two need a date. Set aside a night with a motel room and no children . Make her the focus of the entire evening. Take care of her every whim, pamper her. Doesn't have to cost a lot just be thoughtful. Go to dinner, have a few drinks and spend all night correcting her "sour" mood. It will do wonders for her (and you) I promise!!!!
2007-01-17 14:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... well, I do but I don't think that is your girlfriends issue and I think that you are generalizing. I think that you are feeling like you need to get some and you are putting it off on her.
Perhaps looking at the bigger issue and doing some problem solving in regards to your living arrangement might fix the problem? Stop thinking of yourself and just ask her what is wrong (nicely... not in a "what the hell is your problem" way).
2007-01-17 14:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes l must admit l do. When a woman gets frustrated she is like a bear with a sore head. See guys us women also need good sex it's not just you men !!
2007-01-17 14:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋