Friend problems!?

Question

this is the story ,my friend has a boyfriend but her boyfriend is a jerk she's dumped him over 5 times and still goes back with him I've told her to truly break up with him. what do you think should she or not! (he also screamed at her and calls her a bi*** ) thne they broke and he begged for her to come back which she did stupid huh!

Answer 1

I know, I know, i may sound harsh, but...

If a boy can dump you once, then there is a definitly a great chance that he could dump you again.
In my feeling, if someone really likes you, they'll won't give it up the first place. If the relationship is really good, it wouldn't of even happen. I know a lot of people may not agree with me. I can understand if it is dumped once but back together. but now, it's over 5 times. For peetsakes. i've would of given the relationship up by the 2nd time....

But of course, i believe if once it happened, i won't forgive them. but still friends..


I don't know what to say because, i think, if as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, if it's already happened 5 times, what would it be like if it was a married situation? would they marry and divorce for 5 stupid times? i think it is definitly the best to like break up. I'm not saying they have to marry....but, i was just using an example. ... you know what i mean...

My answer:
break up ....


a guy that can break up for more than 5 times, it is not worth it.

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but on the other hand, because the above answer was my opinion..

to be truthly, love can be bigger than the world. Even is something happened like if the guy murdered, sometimes, love is so strong, the gal could just like... go to jail with him.....

so, i guess, if she can do this over 5 times, it must be a deep relationship..

but don't force her. don't convience her, if it was something else like smoking or whatever, it would be worth conviencing....but Love, that's a whole differently story. 2 person that is in love cannot be also have the feelings the same as some other person looking at them... you know what i mean?
Some people are just willing to live their life the harsh way...

so, let her choose. and to protect you and her's friendship, i would support as much as i could and just help her get through hard times.

nice question btw...

Answer 2

It's a thing called love. She may really love him and feel that he loves her but does stupid things. Yeah it does appear to be stupid, but she can only do what she knows. If he parents didn't raise her to find someone worthy of her then she will not know how to leave the ones who don't treat her with pure dignity and royalty. Just be there for her and reassure her that she doesn't have to put up with it. Tell her she needs to care more about herself and realize the true damage it is doing for her. She may not be the best looking female on earth, but tell her and reassure her THERE IS someone out here for her. That's all you can do is to be her friend and love her for her and not her decisions.

Answer 3

I had a friend in the same situation. I tried to get her out of it for months. Eventually I realized that she just didn't *know* that she could get better. So I introduced her to a really nice guy that I knew she would like and vice versa. Voila! They hit it off right away and she realized that she could do so much better than the jerk she was with before.

Answer 4

Looks like even if you throw a rock at your friend she still wont get it. You have done everything you could to open your friends eyes, but if she wants to live a hard life then so be it. Don't waste your time trying to convince her, she will learn. Trust me time will show her the truth and she will feel 10 times stupid.

Answer 5

tell her to to either brake up with him for good or to stop wasting her breath breaking up wiht him b/c she will just get back together with him.