Okay, I've been with my boyfriend (Michael) for almost a year. His best friend (Mario) has always been there for me when Michael treated me like crap. Michael and I were broken up for a while (he cheated on me with three girls) and I liked Mario a lot so I decided to give it a go. We were together for a month and it was wonderful. I got back with Michael because I missed him a lot. Mario was okay with it and was sort of happy that I was somewhat happy. On Christmas, Mario confessed loving me. I think I love him too. I'm so confused. Mario is such a great guy and has never done anything at all to hurt me (I've known him for 3 years), unlike Michael. What should I do?
-The chick with her heart on her sleeve...
2007-01-17 14:00:38 · 8 answers · asked by →sugarwuss 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that should read "the dumb chick with her heart on her sleve"
the guy cheated on you with 3 girls and you had another guy that treated you great and you went back to the scumbag?
i'm wondering why the good guy is even hanging around and waiting, i wouldn't cause you are not worth it
2007-01-17 14:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly to me its a lose-lose situation for you. Michael has cheated on you before and in the future (if you do stay with Michael) if he messes up, I'm sure you will be so upset, you will bring up those times he cheated on you and it will just makes matters worse. I don't know how Mario is, but what I can tell you, from my experience is that if a girl/woman goes back to her old boyfriend cuz she "misses him," it's generally over, before it even began. Hence, I would never trust to be in a relationship with you and if something did happen, I would have a lot of insecurities of our relationship. Mario will not tell you he doesn't trust you, he will just pretend to.
I'm my opinion, you need a break from these two guys. I don't know how old you are, but I think it's time you start looking at other fishes in this massive, growing ocean.
2007-01-17 22:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Michael will just hurt u, but Mario is the one u need to focus on and give your heart to.u will be happier with Mario, than u would with Michael. as u will always remember that Michael cheated on u, and because of that you will never feel good or trust the relationship with Michael.
2007-01-17 23:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back and think and who do you want to be with and spend the rest of your life with.... I personally feel that Mario is the best one for you but i am not you and cannot think for you.... It sounds like you dont love Michael.
2007-01-17 22:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should cut them both loose and start fresh.It will be hard to move on with either guy given your past with the other. It is never a good idea to go from one friend to another. Also in this situation guys tend to compare notes and that is not a good thing. Good luck!
2007-01-17 22:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by chemky1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Micheal seems like an a.ss ... someone who loves you would not cheat on you 3 times!!!!!!!!! I say break up with him, maybe date mario if you are ready.. but you should definately break up with micheal.. life is too short to stay in a relationship like that.. one time cheat maybe.. but three.. no no no ... sorry hun, if you stay with micheal then you are just wasting your life.
2007-01-17 22:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the guy that treats you well all the time!
2007-01-17 22:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have them take a number.
Boring, I'll take two points and leave.
2007-01-17 22:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋