how much is too much to call? i hate feeling like i'm smothering him. i've called him everyday for the past 4 days. most of the conversations were "what are you up to." "okay i'll be there in a few minutes."
but i feel lyke i'm annoying him. we hang out all the time too. i just don't know. he flirts with me and we are great friends.
how can i tell if i'm bothering him or calling too much?
oh yeah. i'm 17 he's 21.
2007-01-17 14:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by Mhmm. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you are asking this question..........you probably already know the answer...............let him call you for awhile
2007-01-17 14:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by ladybug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stalking is a legal term for repeated harassment or other forms of invasion of a person's privacy in a manner that causes fear to its target. Statutes vary between jurisdiction but may include such acts as:
1-repeated physical following;
2-unwanted contact (by letter or other means of communication);
3-observing a person's actions closely for an extended period of time; or
4-contacting family members, friends, or associates of a target inappropriately
5-cyberstalking
2007-01-17 14:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by faeire888 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont call him more than once a day unless its super important
dont call him more than 3 days out of a 7 day week and put some space between them.
if ur friends ask u to hang out but u want to hang out with him too, give it up for your friends once in a while
if he calls, tell him ur busy but youll call him back once u have time.
if he sounds like hes distracted, tell him to call u back when he has time.
2007-01-17 14:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him and he should be honest with you. If I were him I would like being called everyday just not at certain times of the day like before nightfall when I just want time to myself.
2007-01-17 14:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I'd take a day off every now and then. Maybe every day is a bit much. You want him to know that you have another life besides him. But don't back off so much that he thinks something is wrong.
2007-01-17 14:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm
ask him
ask him how much is "too much"
ASK him if he's feeling smothered, or if this is great. don't just guess and don't back off! he may take this as a sign you don't like him anymore
just ask him
good luck
2007-01-17 14:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him for a few days and see what his reaction is. if he calls you then he probably likes the attention if he doesnt give him some space.
2007-01-17 14:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes proble using u ur way to young
2007-01-17 14:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋