I'm gay, parents don't know, and i'm 14. Trying to find a guy, looking on myspace, but i can't really find my age range! Where do i look?
2007-01-17 13:33:43 · 13 answers · asked by Dallas P 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I've tried telling myself i'm not gay, but i am!I check guys out all the tim. My church teaches its a sin. I have to do this w/ out my parents my knowing. They'd be so devistated! So it has to be very hush, hush!
The webs seemed the easiest way to go!
2007-01-17 13:57:55 · update #1
I've tried telling myself i'm not gay, but i am!I check guys out all the time. My church teaches its a sin. I have to do this w/ out my parents my knowing. They'd be so devistated! So it has to be very hush, hush!
The webs seemed the easiest way to go!
2007-01-17 13:58:42 · update #2
have mercy boy.
why don't you do your homework and don't think about boys. I don't care if your gay or not.
your too young to be thinking about getting a BF it's not really important.
you may not like it what i'm saying right now,but maybe someday you will thank me.
2007-01-17 13:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by binibining pilipina 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm going to suggest that you wait for a while. I know at your age some of your friends are relationships, but trust me when I say that that is too young for a serious relationship. If I were you, I would make some gay friends first and not worry about relationships right now. I think this is why you can't find many gay guys on myspace your age. That's a young age to look for a relationship. Sorry if I seem like I'm preaching.
2007-01-17 21:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Liir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, school is the best place to look.
Seriously, do you think your the ONLY gay kid in school? Find out if there are any "local" websites that cater to your school and area, NOT FOR DATES! But just to make friends and keep up with the school goings on and stuff, when you get older, take Drama Club and or Home Economics with all the other gay bois. Good luck.
PS I don't!!! recommed the Web, its usually about sex and at 14, I think you could wait!
2007-01-17 22:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finding a partner online is difficult for anyone, and potentially very dangerous, as people can represent themselves as something they are not. I would guess it is particularly dangerous as a homosexual, because there are far more homophobes than hetrophobes.
You are very young so I would wait a while. In my experience relationships are more likely to happen if you aren't out looking for them. If you decide you do want to venture online to look, go to a proper dating site, rather than a site such as facebook.
If you DO meet someone offline, tell your parents where you are going, and preferably have a friend with you, or at least near by. And meet in public until you're sure about the other person. Common sense, I know, but it's always worth repeating.
2007-01-17 21:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm gay, parents don't know and I'm 15.
OMG!! We have so much in common!! We should be friends!
OK, sorry. I'll cut the crap.
ANYway, TOTALLY understand why you're so desperate for a bf. I felt/feel the same. But, seriously, give it a bit of time.
If you are looking for a boyfriend, I would steer clear of the web at your age. Sorry to be so blunt, but if you're like "I'm 14 and looking for a bf", they'll be some freaky old guy who'll be like, "I'm FOURTEEN [wink-wink-nudge-nudge] too". I don't want you to get used, broken and hurt.
Wait a bit, find a more LOCAL guy and stay away from the internet (at least when looking for bfs) until you're 18 or something.
Keep safe.
xoxoxo
2007-01-18 01:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the net is never a good place to find dates, whether you are gay or hetero.
You must be really careful, because your a young boy and there are bad people on the Internet (I sound like my mom).
I know you must find it very hard, being gay, and not being able to live it like you would like, but maybe you could start by joining some GTLB organization, that's a good place to get to know cool people.
Good luck!
2007-01-21 22:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by _Bizi Poz_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much about a boyfriend! Live it up a little, and just have fun with your regular friends. Oh, and not to be stereotypical, but might i suggest joining the drama club or theatre group or something, there's bound to be some guys for you there ;-)
2007-01-17 21:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by lazerybyl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
'Unless there is a gay support group for youths in your area, it will be hard. You can;t trust MySpace with all the pedophiles on there looking to take advantage of young kids
2007-01-25 10:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AT 14, you dont need to look online cause you will end up with a perp, and any mature adult wont bother, cause 14 is a child.
do your honework and live some more. have fun and do 14 y.o. stuff. dont look online cause thats dangerous.
you dont know whos at the other end of the screen.
be safe
2007-01-23 05:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by sharma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 years of age you should be in to school and getting as much education as you can.
Be careful of myspace!!
2007-01-17 22:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by karen_03625 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋